The man is married with children! It is the mistress that is in the wrong and he's wrong for cheating on his wife. He is not using his children as an excuse. Most men simply use a mistress for sex and if the mistress thinks she will win him over then she is in for a big surprise. Most men go back to their wives or at the very least find their freedom if their wife should leave them because of the cheating and they may see several women and not commit to one of them. In this case this married man realizes what he has done to not only his wife, but his children and he has a lot to lose (disrespect in the future by his own children; financial loss) and no mistress to most men is worth that.
It could be that this married man don't want to loose his mistress, even though that his affair is been discovered. No one can force him to stop except his wife or family, but if he ignores the wishes of his wife I think its time for him to think about moving out of the house. If his only thinking about himself and not what his wife he need to make a decision whether his marriage is more important that what he had with his mistress.
No woman or man deserve this kind of treatment. One way or the other someone has to make a decision and this married man can not be trusted. If you are the wife, its time for you to think about you, nobody elses.
When a married man gets caught cheating by his wife and then moves in with his mistress nine chances out of ten he is immature; selfish and if he loved the mistress he would have had the fortitude to leave his wife before he got caught. A man who lives with his mistress after being caught cheating by his wife is afraid to be alone and it doesn't necessarily mean that he loves his mistress.ANSWER:It means that he loves his mistress, and probably he don't want to loose what they have together. But I think its good that he left you and live with her, you will have more freedom, you wouldn't have to remember the pain he gave you. And you wouldn't have to face him to remind you of what he did..
Because he's stuped. And because he wants to be with the ex-mistress.
Because he wants what he can/ cant have. He probably thinks that she still has feelings for him.
This married man do not know what he wanted to do, either he wants to keep his family together, and break up with his mistress. Or he wants to work his marriage and see if he can keep the mistress on the side. Either way, he is playing fire on both side. Some married man will know what they want if he get caught cheating, and there are some that will keep both wife and his mistress and take my words for it, he is taking you for a ride.
It usually means that his wife owns the house and most assets.
Honestly, all it probably means is that he still is physically attracted to his mistress(which doesn't last, if it isn't more). Maybe things aren't going well at home (go figure... he got caught cheating!) But, it definitely isn't true love. Everyone deserves true love! If it were true love, he (a)would have left his wife when he realized that SHE was not his true love, and/or (b)wouldn't be LOOKING at his mistress, but TALKING to her!
Because he wants to see if her reaction shows that any more love for him is still there.
A mistress is a woman who is single, divorced, or sometimes still married. She gets involved with another married man.
Sorry, no percentage. Its documented that married men very seldom leave their wife for a mistress. If they do leave their wifes they never marry the mistress but find someone else to built a new relationship with. They are double standard creatures the same rules does not apply to them. He would always wonder if you are having an affair with someone else. Even if he know in his heart he was the first married man you had an affair with he will never trust you. Look on the internet: Cheating husbands. You will thoroughly and not gently be brought back to reality. Best of luck.
Some married men may feel their life is almost over and they would like to regain their youth and feel like they are single and enjoy the attraction they get from other women. Some men (a low percentage) will leave their wives for the mistress, but this man in particular most likely still loves his wife and feels guilty for cheating and doesn't want to lose her. He and his wife have invested years into their marriage and he is comfortable being with her. Now he risks losing her and, as it turns out most times when a woman chooses a married man and they both agree to an affair the mistress generally loses out.
That he wishes he had never been caught so he could still have both of you. And how he wishes you weren't there any more as a reminder of what he is too scared to pursue any more. You really need to ask the man himself that question. Although there may be some informed opinions, no one can read your friend's mind.
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