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Because that is just the way they are. Always say "They won't come back, but be prepared for what if?" In the 10 years I spent with my husband,(9 of those married) he left so many times I lost track. The time spans got longer and the states he moved to added up. In less than 3 years my husband lived in 3 states. Once again I have filed for a divorce (this being the 3rd time) and I pray every day that I go through with it this time. When he decided to leave this time leaving me with our 7 mo. old daughter I had asked him to cut back on his drinking. He called me at work and said he would and is everything going to be ok with us. He left for a week to his job and when he came back he told me he was going to do what he wanted and this and that and 3 days later he told me I was never going to change and it was all my fault etc. and he was moving out. Not once did I hear anything about his lying, constant cheating, hiding money,or treating every one like crap to make him look good. He actually rented a house,(deposit and 1st months rent), deposits for utilities etc. and never even lived there just to hear from him 12 days later (while he was on the road) telling me he was moving to another state. So him and a friend he was rooming with (who just happens to live in this state) came and got his belongings and now he is gone. The funny thing is he told me to stop trying to push him away from his daughter, and how he loved her whole heartedly and on and on moves 8 hours away. That's love right there. I have been charmed by this man so many times I always take him back. I've had alot of time to think about this though and realized if he won't change for a beautiful,dark haired, dark eyed little part of him, he will not change for no one and that's the reality. Hang in there, your days will get better!

2006-07-20 20:35:27
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Q: Why would a narcissist end a good relationship and never return without even saying goodbye or explaining why he broke up?
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