Humans are a complicated lot and we all come with different personalities. Some men prefer rough sex, or rough women and want to be dominated while a higher percent of men prefer to dominate or at least be on the same level as their partner. You've probably spoiled your husband and although many husbands would appreciate it not all do. It appears he is taking everything you've done for him for granted and he's in this life for himself. He wants women to treat him the opposite ... nasty because he finds it a game, exciting and one he wants to win. He may also be getting wild sex which many wives perfer not to get into 'kinky' side of life. If he should come back or you want him back give him a gift certificate to an S & M club! LOL I now this isn't funny at all, and if I were you I'd move on. Don't sit around moping over the likes of him and YOU get out and get some type of a social life going. I know it's difficult to get back into the dating scene, but do what I did after I divorced my first husband, go out with girlfriends and things evolve from there.
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I could top that Ms. Marcy, maybe he wants his mistress to be nasty so when they have sex he can call her his B----! Ditto right?
It's possible that he would like you to join, or has a fantasy of a three-way with two women.
Thats her M.O. She isn''t ready to settle down.
I'm a woman and I stare at men. I don't do it enough to ever disrespect my husband, but if I see a good looking man I'll mention it to my husband and he does the same when he sees a beautiful woman. We are extremely confident in our relationship together. To me it's like looking at a fine piece of art. You can look, but don't touch! Looking at women or women looking at men doesn't mean they are going to cheat. There is always a risk that a man/women could cheat. Discuss it with your partner and ask him if he thinks his friend would cheat. He should know his friends personality.
Dolly Parton would never cheat on her Husband Carl Dean. Just because she likes to Flirt doesn't mean she would cheat on her Husband.
It happens.
Maybe they gave her the pleasure her husband didn't .
because he can
That he would cheat on her with human women
Hopefully not! If he has no honor though it's entirely possible.
yes.. but 1st i wil investigate about it.
Because they are greedy and selfish and aren't really in love. Some people are just thoughtless, or nasty.
Well there could be a lot of reasons, but if you cheat on him that probably makes him mad.