Your best friend is totally ignoring you?

Answer 1

Try having a conversation with him/her or try to think about something you may have done to hurt his/her feelings. If this doesn't work, try visiting a counselor at school so they can have a talk and you can work it out.

Answer 2

Ok, so i am 13 years old, and i have a best guy friend... Blake.. (i am a girl) We have known each other for 4 years, yet about 5 months ago we became best friends... we text each other EVERY night, for hours, and we talked on IM every time we were on.... I gave him advice he gave me advice, we spilled to each other. (he had a gf then... i never liked him)

About 2 months ago he TOTALLY stopped talking to me. we see each other at school everyday... (it started 4 days ago) but he doesnt even say hi. he talks to EVERYONE else... not me! All of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. He got a new girlfriend around that time, but otherwise nothing has changed... and he has new best friend-girls or whatever... and the new besties are friends too~ So, why do you think this is. and what can i do??? I am desperate... he was one of the only people i could talk to. Thanks!

PTVB

PS:

Hmm, maybe i will ask him if his gf told him too... but his girlfriend is very very popular... but we get along well, and she is totally sweet!

+Plus... we (Blake and I) dont really flirt.... or didnt anyways

He may have liked me... and usually there would be an attraction.... BUT:

He is crazy about his GF.... even when i was giving him gf advice back when we first became besties... he liked his current GF as much as his old!

Thanks for the answers so far !

I REALLY don't want to be rude to you or your friend, but maybe you should just move on.

Yeah, I have had a lot of friends like Blake (except for the girlfriend part). They are annoying and not kind and they completely ignore me around other people.

I like my math partner a lot and I think she may like me too but whenever I see her in the hallway she completely ignores me like I am a fly on the wall.

And I have a good friend we went to Disney World together and she is really nice to me. Now we have started middle school and she went to the same school as everyone else and I didn't. And she switched seats because I think she wanted to sit by someone else!

I ate lunch alone today and I was really sad because she has this really good friend but she ALWAYS spends time with her. And school has only been around for about 3 weeks and she already is sending emails to everyone and it makes me feel left out. And we still hang out and email each other when we aren't at school.

And then 2 years ago I was friends with this girl and I moved my desk to sit by her and I really liked her. But then the second year we were in different classes and she completely ignored me!

And then that summer we had this big fight and I was SO mad at her. She said it was because "all of her other friends were swarming her" and then we kind of talked to each other again. But she quit band and so now I only have a couple of periods with her, but she still ignores me!

Listen to me. DON'T TRUST THESE FRIENDS. They are really nice and you should respect them for that but if they are two-faced and won't talk to you in front of their friends then they are just like the popular people that think they are so cool. That's how all of the friends listed above turned out.

I don't know about Blake and what kind of person he is. Talk to him about. If you don't understand each other, talk again, and again, and if by that point if you still feel like he is ignoring you then I am sorry, but he may have moved on.

I really feel sorry for you, because I am in your situation. But you will have a million friends and he doesn't have to be one of them. You will have many trials in your life harder than this and this is just one you're gonna have to face.

And if I knew that my friend had a girl friend or boy friend before 16, I would be really disgusted at them. I don't know about you, but that is just sick.

Answer 3

My best friend ISN"T

ignoring

me.!

Answer 4

it just means that your best friend needs some time to think about what ever happened between you or someone else.