Your wife strayed how do you get her to love you again?

Answer 1

If you cheated on her, the first thing would to gain trust.

I am a woman, and if i ever got cheated on i would probably never be able to love that person again.

i couldn't stand the thought of someone who "loved" me being with another person..saying things about me possibly, or saying that he loves her as much as he loves me.

its disgusting and i could never love him again.

hopefully for your sake, even though i doubt you deserve her if you cheated, shell find it in her heart to start trusting you.

no relationship can get anywhere without trust.

Answer 2

• Some men have a habit of getting too comfortable with their wives; become complacent and bored and take full advantage of it leaving their wife feeling neglected and hurt. You have to reach inside and figure out just how much you have put into this marriage. Women of any age like romance and every so often a wife likes attention from her husband or a nice compliment. It is also wise to take your wife out for dinner on occasion; take her out dancing or to a movie. The vacations don't have to extravagant, but just a change of scenery so there is time for the two of you to be alone. A bouquet of flowers with a simple 'I love you' a few times a year and if you can't afford that a simple red rose with a bow on it and a nice card. Telephone your wife (do not email her) and ask if you can meet for a drink. When you see her tell her how much you love her and that you have made mistakes and haven't paid the attention to her you should have and would like her to come back so the both of you can work on saving your marriage. Marriage counseling would be a good addition so the two of you can learn to communicate and be given tools to know the others needs.

Answer 3

You can't get her to feel, or to love. But, you can give her ideas. Tell her why you love her, and sometimes all women need is space.