Is it strange that your wife likes to get lap dances from female strippers when out with her friends?

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Yes it is strange that your wife would enjoy a lap dance from a female stripper and this generally would be enjoyed more by lesbians. If in doubt ask her. Marcy Answer: I'm not in your situation, so I don't know. But I would tell you don't be concerned, it sounds just like harmless fun. I've never read about this before, and surprised that you know. Did she tell you or someone else? Maybe your wife is an art lover who adores looking at the attractive,healthy, fit, nude, young ladies. Maybe she looks like one or aspires to look like one. How often does your wife do this? If it's rarely, then it's even less of a concern. But if I had a wife who was getting a lap dance from a female exotic dancer, and it was every week, then I'd be afraid maybe she's bisexual or maybe becoming lesbian and maybe is going to leave me someday. That's just my opinion and maybe I worry too much. On the other side of the coin, I must emphasize I AM NOT GAY, but I have enjoyed watching male exotic dancers perform on stage at night clubs. They hardly ever perform anymore in the city where I live, probably because of reduced demand for their shows. But, I enjoy looking at them because of their exciting costumes, they're attractive, fit, healthy, strong, and the ladies adore them. I wish I was attractive, fit, etc. like them. But I have no desire to have sex with them. If people lived natural, naked, the way nature intended, like every other species, I would not have to seek out a nightclub with male exotic dancers to see what a live, briefly nude man looks like, because they'd be everywhere. But the exotic dancers, female and male, enjoy being looked at. I'm going out on a limb here, by saying I even asked if I could have a V.I.P. dance with a male exotic dancer, but was rejected and told only women can get a V.I.P. dance with a male exotic dancer. In Ontario, Canada, some female exotic dancers have told me, within the past 2 years, if I remember correctly, that lap dancing is illegal in Ontario, or maybe it's legal in Toronto, but illegal in the rest of Ontario. Anyway, I live in a small city and here these dances are called V.I.P. dances. I don't know what the difference is. At least your wife has the freedom to get a lap dance with her choice of a female or male exotic dancer. I'm just assuming you'd let her get a lap dance from a male dancer. At least it's possible for a girl with a girl, but not for a guy with a guy.