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Ask yourself what you could live without knowing and what you could live without knowing that you would use as anger tactics or throwing back at him. If you are trying to forgive him and move forward - do just that leave the past in the past and move forward - try not to bring it up anymore. It would probably be best to as little as possible and leave it at that.
What else can I help you with?
Information you need to know about the other woman in your husbands affair so that you can move forward?
Forward where? Out of your husband's life by divorcing him, or trying to fight the war with your husband's mistress? All you need to know is the true facts that he's actually having an affair and if you've caught him then you have to decide if you love him enough to sit down like two adults and communicate both your feelings and why your marriage has been reduced to his cheating. If you aren't happy with his excuses then you need to stand on your own two feet (you are in control of YOU) and at least get a separation before divorce. Separations are often a good idea if the couple is having marriage problems, one of the mates has made a mistake, or there are children involved. Separation lets each partner have head space to rethink their actions and often one or both of partners realize how much they miss each other once the chips are laid on the table. Making decisions while angry seldom works out and it can cause a lot of regrets in the future. If you don't know for sure he is cheating then get a girlfriend and follow him one night. That's how I caught my first husband cheating. The rest is up to you. There is no need to know all the particulars of the woman he is seeing and instead of being angry at her, be angry at your husband!
Why are some wives struggling with self doubt and self esteem after spouse affair?
it can leave a feeling of inadequacy. If a person is with some one and they still cheat on them, it makes the other person feel as if they are lacking and are therefore at fault for their spouse going out and cheating. They may feel if they were prettier, smarter, sexier, etc. that they could have somehow prevented this. Fact is if a person is going to cheat or if that is just part of their character, there isn't much that can be done to stop it.
Reasons for cheating?
There is absolutely no reason for cheating on a partner. Unfortunately, in these modern times it seems to be more and more of a National Sport in the Western countries. People who cheat will make up all sorts of reasons for cheating such as: she/he doesn't understand me; she/he ignores me when I'm good to him/her; he/she has cheated so I will get even; what she/he doesn't know won't hurt them and I have to have my needs filled; she spends too much time with the kids and not me, etc. There are many reasons, but they sure aren't good excuses because a mature couple would communicate and work together on whatever problems they have in their relationship, but many individuals just 'want' and don't want to have to work at it. Cheating breaks the bond of trust between the couple and it is not easy to regain that trust. Cheaters are spineless; dishonest and are selfish in the fact they don't care how they hurt their partner. If one partner is so unhappy in the relationship then they have the freedom to end that relationship which again give them no reason to have to cheat, but, again, the cheater is selfish and wants it all.
Why do I feel like cheating on my boyfriend?
Usually people feel like cheating on their significant other because they feel there is something lacking in their relationship. This may be that he doesn't give you as much attention anymore, that he doesn't treat you the same way or even that you have lost your sexual attraction to him. Whatever the reason, you should talk to your partner about whatever it is you feel is missing from your relationship. Cheating is never a good idea, it just causes feelings of betrayal and hurt in the one being cheated on, and feelings of guilt in the one cheating. Always end one relationship before starting another, or everyone involved is getting cheated out of something special.
How much do you know yourself?
As much as you wish to. Most people do not have the moral courage to really examine themselves.
Is chatting on the internet cheating on your partner if its the opposite sex?
Of course not ... chatting = conversation (talk) ... cheating = having an affair (sex) ... so, sex is not conversation ... talk is not an affair. Anyone is entitled to talk to anyone they so choose.Another POV:It can be. The idea that a sexual affair is the only form of cheating is a limited view. An emotional affair can be just as much a betrayal. If you are engaged in a chat/internet relationship with someone to the detriment of your physical, non-virtual relationship, then it is cheating.
Is it possible to fulfill most signs of cheating and not be cheating?
I read a statistic once that said that 85% of women who suspect their husbands are cheating are correct in their suspicions, and 50% of men who suspect their wives are cheating are correct. To answer your question, of course anything is possible. I wouldn't focus on the standard "signs" as much as I would focus on trusting your own instincts.
How do you know if your husband is cheating on you?
this is an easy question: see if he goes places alot and be on the phone too much.
How will you feel if your spouse compared you to his affair partner?
No woman would want to be compared to their spouse's affair partner. When a spouse does this they are getting even for having to stay with their spouse. It hurts and cuts deeply when the cheating spouse makes comments about how much better their affair partner was. Take control and let your spouse know immediately you are not going to put up with their childish behavior and if their affair partner is so great then tell him/her (no matter how hard it is for you) that you will file for divorce as you deserve better.ANSWER:It will be a pleasure to answer this question because it did happened to me personally. When I discovered my husband's affair, I had found out that his not only admired this woman but he fell in love with her. And that is why he compared me to his "friend" aka mistress. The day he compared me to her was the day that I know, no matter how much we wanted to rebuild the relationship it will not work with me anymore. I will not be the second choice after his affair..
What would most wives do if they caught their husband having an affair with another women?
It isn't just a matter of the wife would do learning about the affair, but how hurt the wife would be and how crushed and shocked she is that she put so much trust into her husband. Once a bond of trust has been broken it is difficult to earn it back and sometimes it cannot be earned back. Some wives may give their husband a second chance if he has not cheated before; some won't. Other wives may have the attitude 'You started the cheating so that means I can too!' Other wives may not accept their husbands having an affair at all and go into immediate divorce proceedings. Cheating is low; spineless and the cheater generally pays dearly for that mistake.
What legal rights do you have if your husband is having an affair with a single woman?
Sadly, not many. You can divorce him and name her as the adulteress, and even sue her as the reason for alienation of affection from your husband, but that will be a long shot. But you may come out much better in the settlement if you stay with him for now, and do all you can to get proof that he is cheating, such as photos of them together, motel receipts, etc. If you choose to go that route, don't let him know that you are aware that he is cheating.
What happens if a boy you are going out with is cheating on you?
If you know for sure and have proof he is cheating on you then you need to move on and dump him. Find somebody that cares for you as much as you do for them and cheating should not happen again. Don't rely on a friend telling you he is cheating, you need to see it for yourself to be certain.
Is it to much too handle if you want to save your relationship after your spouse affair?
That's your decision. First step would be marriage counseling.If the cheating partner is unwilling, the prospects don't look good.
What if your husbands affair is weighing on your mind and the other woman has clammed up after she confessed to the affair and are they back at it he says no?
Once a spouse has cheated they have broken that bond of trust and cheating is cheap, selfish and unnecessary. If a spouse is that unhappy and feels they need an affair they are too immature to work on marriage problems or to handle reality. You would pretty much have to keep him on a tight rein to be sure he is not cheating on you and it's highly likely they are finding some way of keeping in contact with each other. The only way you can find out is to either follow him yourself with a friend and use the friend's vehicle or hire a detective to prove he is cheating. As far as the other woman she is probably terrified that you have found out. Keep him busy at home with chores during the weekend; go out for an evening; go for walks and at least the weekends will be used up. He could still have time to see her when he is at work so keep a keen eye in that area. It would also be wise for both of you to seek marriage counseling.
How do you know a boy cheating on you means he does not love you?
You can tell if he's cheating on you because he doesn't see you often or as much, he doesn't care about you as much and you have a lot of.fights. If you are asking about what cheating means, then it means he doesn't respect you. It means he feels that he isn't getting his needs met, either that, or he has unreasonable needs.
How do you know if your girl is cheating?
You can tell by if she doesn't spend as much time with you as she used to. She won't want to kiss as much as before. She will try to avoid you as much as possible.
Does the male spouse generally refuse to admit to his affair even when the other spouse caught him?
Yes, the male spouse will often refuse to admit he has been cheating on his wife because they feel guilty and even while having the affair they feel it is wrong so they will lie no matter how much evidence is against them.
