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Information you need to know about the other woman in your husbands affair so that you can move forward?
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∙ 16y ago
Forward where? Out of your husband's life by divorcing him, or trying to fight the war with your husband's mistress? All you need to know is the true facts that he's actually having an affair and if you've caught him then you have to decide if you love him enough to sit down like two adults and communicate both your feelings and why your marriage has been reduced to his cheating. If you aren't happy with his excuses then you need to stand on your own two feet (you are in control of YOU) and at least get a separation before divorce. Separations are often a good idea if the couple is having marriage problems, one of the mates has made a mistake, or there are children involved. Separation lets each partner have head space to rethink their actions and often one or both of partners realize how much they miss each other once the chips are laid on the table. Making decisions while angry seldom works out and it can cause a lot of regrets in the future. If you don't know for sure he is cheating then get a girlfriend and follow him one night. That's how I caught my first husband cheating. The rest is up to you. There is no need to know all the particulars of the woman he is seeing and instead of being angry at her, be angry at your husband!
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Why are some wives struggling with self doubt and self esteem after spouse affair?
it can leave a feeling of inadequacy. If a person is with some one and they still cheat on them, it makes the other person feel as if they are lacking and are therefore at fault for their spouse going out and cheating. They may feel if they were prettier, smarter, sexier, etc. that they could have somehow prevented this. Fact is if a person is going to cheat or if that is just part of their character, there isn't much that can be done to stop it.
You feel guilty about having an affair should you stop?
You wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't already feel there was something problematic about what's occurring. When you invest most of your focus and energies into an affair, you put other things on the shelf--your spouse/partner and your children (if any). By seeking a emotional escape with a lover, you're turning away from reality, which includes the reasons you're unsatisfied in your current life. What is missing from your life that you feel is met by the affair and your affair partner? The problems that were in your life before the affair started haven't gone away, it's just easier to ignore them when you're on the emotional 'high' that an affair creates. When that high fades for either you or your lover you'll be back to square one. You (personally) still will not be satisfied with your life. The problem with an affair is that both lovers live in a bubble--never planning on the major fallout that would occur if the affair was found out. Would you leave your spouse/partner for your lover? Would they leave their current partner for you? Can you accept that you will be seen as untrustworthy, based on your secrets and deceits? Will you be OK with being gossiped about, and possibly having your children exposed to it? Are you prepared for the possibility being asked by your spouse to leave your home and your family? What do want out of your marriage/relationship? If you want to stay with your spouse/partner, you need to focus on that relationship by ending the affair now. If you no longer want to be in you current relationship, you need to do the most integral thing for everyone concerned--notify your spouse/partner that you are ending the relationship. It is then up to you and your affair partner to decide if you have anything worth pursuing in real life.
An immense body of justified beliefs which consists of facts you have learned from your own observations and information you have learned from other people are?
Background information
Does tv affect kids behavior?
Yes, it can especially if other information and guidance is not provided by the adults around them.
What does anchoring bias mean?
It is the tendency to rely too heavily one one piece of information, (anchoring on that one thing) when making a decision. All the other information is there, but it is not equally weighted in the decision making process.
Does your husband feels uncomfortable around you since his affair?
Yes, some husbands do feel uncomfortable around their wives after affair because some husbands feel remorse and are ashamed of hurting their wife and do not always know what to do to gain their wife's trust back while other husbands may simply be frustrated and angry at their wife for catching them cheating. Communication is one of the most powerful tools a couple can have so both should be able to express their feelings without getting into an argument and try to save their marriage.
Does a mistress ever physically attact the wife?
There have been all sorts of unplanned consequences resulting from an affair, besides STIs and pregnancies. In some affairs, the other person becomes a stalker or blackmails the cheating spouse; the affair partner (other woman/other man) harasses and threatens the betrayed spouse, the betrayed spouse harasses the affair partner. Even worse, there have been murders and suicides as a result of an affair. There's no way to predict what person will be set off by the results of an affair. ANSWER: AS far as I know yes there are some mistress that do no stop harassing the wife. I'm not sure how dangerous a mistress are, but I will use my past experience. When I discovered my husbands love affair, it automatically changed their life together. She said I ruined her life with my husband, and some other stuff. To me it's my husbands fault why she become this way, even they met on a dating site, it was him who pursue her even if she was still married. And because he fell in love with her but unfortunately I discovered their affair, he stop seeing her. That woman still part of my life even I don't have a life with the man that I married. But this is what the mistress is been doing, to make my life with my children miserable.
Is there intimacy after an affair?
There ca an intimacy after an affair if they still have feelings for each other.
Why do husbands find other wives?
Husbands do not generally find other wives. They do find good friends throughout their life. They just love the fact that their wife loves them.
In your will it reads your husbands name your name should it read your husbands name or your name?
which ever one dies it will have the other ones name
Should you ask your husband's affair partner for more information about their affair if you aren't sure he has been honest?
No - an affair is an affair no matter how you slice it and talking with the "other" woman is not going to clarify or simplify anything - it still has the same outcome. Knowing specific details etc. will not make this any better for you in fact it may make things worse. You are going to have to decide what you want to do about things from here but remember do what is best for you and in your best interest.
Did Hera have any other husbands besides Zeus?
Nope!
Is it ok for a Pentecostal man to have an affair with a married woman?
No. It is not ok. It makes not difference whether the man is Pentecostal or whatever " Marriage is to be honored by all, and husbands and wives must be faithful to each other. God will judge those who are immoral and those who commit adultery. " -- Hebrews 13:4
What is a school social?
Dance or other social affair
How many husbands did Paula Deen have?
I think she had two husbands. One was Jimmy Deen, they have two kids, but then divorced. And the other is Michael Anthoney Groover.
What are two features of VTP client mode operation?
unable to add VLANS can forward VLAN information to other swithces in the same VTP domain
To look at information is what palindrome?
A palindrome is a word, phrase, number, or other sequence of characters that reads the same backward as forward.
