Cheating

1- he sends you a message like : hey my phones acting up. Just got your message, I'll endeavor to get back to you asap.

2- he used cash instead of credit cards when you went out. (fear of wifey finding out).

3- he "works" on weekends and cant meet with you those days. (wifey time).

4- you've never been to his house,but he strongly prefers to come to yours.

5-he refuses to add you on facebook (this ones obvious).

6-his online dating profiile says hes interested in "hang out" and "having a laugh" (incase wifey finds out).

Wives were expected to obey their husbands.

Why is a trickier question, but most of it boils down to religion. Most religions rely on a firmly structured society, sharply defined by who has power over whom. There's God on the top, and then everybody else neatly in place in society like rungs in a ladder. And in that ladder women were placed lower than men.

There's no real reason for this that can be accepted today, but when it all started it was seen as self evident that this was the way things had to be.

The woman has a baby and the man who got her pregnant either takes responsibility for what he did or leaves and never comes back.

• A man can love two women at the same time. The wife may give him certain things in the marriage such as stability; a loving mother; etc., while the mistress holds onto her man with a sexual relationship and she may well love the married man and he may love her, but statistics prove that most men who have a serious affair do not often marry their mistress. It is a simple fact the married man wants it all and thus, if the two women involved enable his behavior both women will be the losers and he wins!

Why were you naked with other people? If you did it with the intention of following it up with something 'more', I would consider it cheating. If (somehow) you accidentally ended up naked (together), then it is not cheating. You just have yourself a very strange story.

Cheating in academics is the way of copying from others. It is an unfair means of answering and can lead to disqualification.

normal and just into her getting off

I think she wanted to have what your husband gave her. Or was your husband fell in love with his ex mistress because she expect no condition from your husband? How about your husband, are you sure that he stop talking to her. Before you can really blame this woman, see if your husband still talking to her, but don't let her manipulate you as well as your husband. I can give you lots of idea what might this woman wants but I won't because what happen to you is a bit different from mine. But I will share my own personal experience from the man that I married to his ex mistress now.

From the time I discovered my husband with the woman he met on line dating until now, this woman still part of my life, by email, cell phone or personal visit in my home. This woman said to me that she will not stop until she ruin my husband, so when she said it, she meant it because she is doing it not to his ex married lover but to me. 3 years and she still doing it, and I think the man that I married what ever his ex mistress is doing I will not believe her. But his ex mistress really fulfill what she had said in the past. So its either she wanted him back or maybe they decided to stay friends with benefit, or she want to know how he is doing with you. None is important but the other woman will never stop, and your husband " probably" enjoying it because his thinking there's 2 women that he loves fighting for him. If I were you, ignored what this ex mistress is doing, face your husband and ask him to do something, after all you never knew this woman until the day his affair was discovered. Good luck and try not to blame this woman yet, your husband was the one that open this other life not you....

Sometimes it is not that they believe the lies, it is that they just don't care.

Then again, Some women are so desperate for love that they'll believe anything for the attention.

ANSWER:

Not all mistresses believes on lies from the married man. Maybe the married man is telling a white lies so that way she wouldn't tell him that she wants to end the relationship. Do you think the mistress can't feel if this married man is lying to her, after all if the married man do lie to her, do you think she will be stupid enough not to say anything.

Never ask him just follow him and Ask questions But not misleading ones e.g do you love me

• There are no excuses for your husband and friend being caught naked together. They are adults and should be able to hold their liquor. It's an excuse. He must have thought she was attractive and she thought he was good looking before this happened and too much alcohol can take away people's inhibitions, but many people who feel this fleeting attraction to someone and are drunk to a point manage to control their feelings. Get rid of the so-called friend and read the riot act to your husband and ask him how he would feel if he caught you doing this with one of his friends and used alcohol as an excuse.

Stop there, because you don't have the rights to tell your married lover about his wife and what he might choose. No one put a gun in your head so you will have the affair with this married man. You are thinking right and you made your own decision when you accept what he wanted from you. A good Christian woman will not do what you are doing but you did, so this didn't give you rights to explain to this low life about his wife? You need to stop because one day what you are doing now will come back to you and it will be you who will pay, no one else.

Only if you have good reason to suspect that she may still have strong feelings for him. Otherwise, no, I wouldn't worry.

If she was planning on cheating on you, then she probably wouldn't have told you that she's going to meet up with her ex.

Of course, there's always the chance that the spark they had together will reignite, and they will wind up in bed together. Even if that's not what they intend to do, it could still happen.

But such a thing is beyond your control, so there's no point in stressing about it. You just have to trust her. You can't guarantee that someone won't cheat on you. And acting jealous and possessive only makes it more likely that she WILL cheat on you.

Clearly there was something special between them, or they wouldn't have ended up in a relationship. But they also broke up, which clearly indicates that their relationship ultimately couldn't work.

So you just have to trust her to recognize that, while she may still have some feelings for him, she's been down that road before and it only leads to a dead end. If she's a smart and rational girl, she will know that jeopardizing a good relationship for the sake of an old, defunct one is a very stupid idea.

Nice boyfriend.

I have had a real bad experience when it comes to relationship.... it was really a bad moment when i found out my ex is cheating on me..... thanks to the help of phackers483 @ gmail.... reddit introduce me to him and i seek his service to get to know what is going behind my relationship... i was really glad to know the truth and was able to stay away from bad relationship

• Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.

A bit on a negative side. Married men thinks that if they leave their wife for their mistress, his life will be different. He will assume that what he have now with his mistress will be much fun that what his been having with his wife, until he finds out the behavior of his mistress or vice versa. Few married men who left their wife only last 3-4 months, and there are some that last a year, no longer.

It's a long shot for a friendship to develop even in an open marriage. It is also way beyond any reasonable expectation to ask someone to even try. Spousal relationships are meant to be only between the married couple. There is not any acceptance of a third party into a committed or married relationship, even in these days when almost anything goes.

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This is a bit insulting, but are you really serious? Are you willing to be such a good friends with your spouse affairs partner that you don't care if the two of you has one thing in common, shared a husband or maybe a wife.

Yes you or we can't never be friends to our spouse affair partner for a reason that he or she might brag how your spouse loves the quality of this person. Are you willing to accept that he or she might tell you the fun things that they did together, especially in bed...

Yes you can, but with a little pros and cons. The private investigator is sworn not to tell, just like between a doctor and his patient, or a lawyer and client. So if you are the one that hired him, he is sworn not to tell because he works for you. The only way someone will find out is if someone follows him and see who he works for..

Approach the vehicle , write down the licnnse number , approach the driver and ask to see his credentials as a licensed P.I. , or you will call the police and say you are being stalked. The investigator will have to identify him/herself to you or a police officer. And if you caught them , whomever hired them is not getting their money's worth anyway. BTW , a P.I. does not LEGALLY enjoy confidentiality like a doctor or lawyer.

sometimes

ANSWER:

yes they do. In scale of 1-10, 8% of married men do fall in love with the other woman. and include the man I married, big time..

This will be up to you and if the circumstances of your situation is different. But right now the two of you needs to talk and see where it will leads both of you..

Once women get married with a men called Husband.

How old were you when the incident occurred? Is this your memory or have you been told about the event from others? If you were under 4-years old, its probably not real. If its a story you were told by others, you may have developed false memories, bc it has been embedded in your mind..generally true memories contain small elements of detail that will spark the memory....so if there are idiosyncratic consistencies, it's likely a true memory.

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