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How can one say that an abusive person will not change in a different relationship?
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∙ 8y ago
Abusers are inherently selfish and manipulating . They can manage to present a false image ; but not for long.If the relationship survives any length at all,it will only be a matter of time before he shows his true colors.
One cannot say. Still, past conduct is the best predictor of future conduct. Professional help and intervention can help some. The sad fact is that most abusers are serial.
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Why do abusive relationships exist?
It exist because the person being hurt stays in the relationship thinking the abuser will stop. Face reality this person has issues and they will not just up and change. I would advise anyone who is in an abusive relationship whether physical,emotional or verbal get out while you still can, because the abuser is not going to change magically.
When you are bipolar does that make you abusive?
It could. But not every Bipolar person is abusive. It should however, never be an excuse for abuse. A person who is abusive Bipolar or not, is wrong in what they are doing. Seek help if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship/situation.
Why can't people leave abusive relationship's?
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
What are abusive relationships?
Well, refer to the name, a relationship, that involves abuse. It can be towards the male or female, if you are in an abusive relationship, leave the person and/or call the police or abuse hotline..idk it though
If your in an abusive relationship and you think you love the person do you actually or are you just addicted to the relationship?
Look up Traumatic Bonding and Stockholm Syndrome. And get out of that relationship.
Is staying in abusive relationship a good idea?
You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
Can a person who has been verbally abusive in a relationship ever change in that same relationship and can the person that they have abused ever really forgive them?
Change in abusers is VERY VERY VERY rare, if ever. Forgiveness is a process. The abused must forgive THEMSELVES first & foremost. It's impossible to forgive someone who doesn't own, apologize and change permanently.
Can you really change a person after a relationship?
You may be able to change a person after a relationship, but people only change if they truly want to.
How do you stop hating yourself after an abusive relationship?
well you shouldn't hate yourself you should hate the person that abused you...because you didnt do anything wrong Answer: you shouldn't hate yourself neither the other person because it.was what you wanted at one time and if it turned out to be an abusive relationship so you learn what to do and what to avoid in the next relationship .
Does an abusive person treat a new relationship better if the new person does what they say or want?
An abusive person tends to remain abusive unless they make a real effort to change. An abusive person will always be just that and no matter how much their new mate will agree with them they will still remain abusive. Abusive people either come from a family of abuse, something has happened to them in their lives that they are extremely angry at, and there is always a reason for the way they are. Sometimes it just comes down to the point that person is miserable and loves controlling their mate because they cannot control life in general. A relationship is about sharing each others dreams and opinions and the major one is respect. Neither mate should rule over the other, but share as best they can. It's a catch-22. Abusers despise submissive and obsequious people. But they also demand automatic and full compliance with their wishes and instructions.
Where can a person find help to get out of an abusive relationship?
There exist a hotline for every state in the United States if you find yourself in an abusive relationship which you can find on the Tripod website. If you find yourself in immediate danger you can also contact 911 and they will assist you immediately.
Can a person who has been abusive really change?
Absolutely. Not all abusers are hopeless cases.
