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How do you help your best friend who has two small children and her husband just told her that he wants a divorce?
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∙ 13y ago
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Make sure she knows that it most likely has nothing to do with her. There are some men who just don't have it in them to be faithful, no matter how much he may love his wife, or how much she loves him, and no matter how good a wife she was to him. Also, some men are just natural born jerks.
Just keep being there for her, and listen when she needs to talk. She will probably need to talk a lot in the first few months, sometimes even at 2:00 a.m., when it's the lonliest time of all. Do all you can to help restore her self esteem, because something like this really causes a person's self esteem to hit rock bottom.
But at the same time, don't "trash out" her husband, or this could put her in the position of feeling she needs to defend him. And that will take her longer to get over him. As long as she feels the need to defend the man she loves, and thought she knew, the longer it will take her to see for herself just what kind of person he really is.
In time, the anger will hit her, but only after she runs the gamut of other emotions, such as hurt, shock, denial, etc. And the sooner the anger hits, the better. Anger is a much easier emotion to deal with than hurt, and is also a good way to resolve herself to never allow him to hurt her again.
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