Take him to a nice place and you tell him VERY slowly and if he really loves you he will learn to simply live with it and together you will decide if you will tell the child or not.
Another Perspective
Tell him in private. You should not expose him in a public place when delivering such shocking news. This situation has legal ramifications and he has the right to know. He may not want to support another man's child for eighteen years or more and the child deserves to know the identity of her biological father. He has the legal right to disavow the child. A secret like yours may cause more damage if you try to hide the affair. Especially with the increased use of DNA testing for all types of reasons. Millions of people are submitting inexpensive DNA tests to genealogy websites to trace their ancestry. Your secret would be exposed in that case when the father and child prove not to be a DNA match.
look at the baby,then look at the husband
Depends on your state. In MI, the legal father of the child is the mother's husband. If your child's father is not going to be your husband, do the right thing and let him be involved.
yes jay-z is the father of beyonces's baby and her husband
Sure does, he is the father.
Orlando Bloom is her husband and presumed father.
Tell him.
In most cases, your sister's mother is also your mother, and her husband is your father. If you and your baby sister have the same father but different mothers, your sister's mother's father is your father. If you and you sister have the same mother but different fathers, your baby sister's father is your step-father if he is married to your mother.
Yes, you could get into legal trouble if you have a baby together and do not tell your husband where you are. If your husband does not abuse you or control you or harm you in any way he does deserve to be part of your child's life so seek legal counsel and get joint custody as long as your husband is not into drugs; a gang; an alcoholic and would be considered a fit father to the child.
her husband Paul Urich
He should be its father and rise him.
Her husband, Carey Hart
you just say honey you are not the father of my baby and i'mso sorry your not but you can still take care of it