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If you got a girl pregnant and you love her to death and she says she loves you just as much but she thinks you wont last long because of other people outside of the relationship?

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When you mention other people, I'm not sure if you mean threats to your relationship or people wanting the relationship to end. If it's the first one, maybe there is some reason in the past - or present - that has made her mistrust your trustworthiness and loyalty or it could even be a result of a bad past relationship. Have a think about what it could be and make any changes that may help restore trust in you. Don't give her any reason to doubt your word. Possibly she could be testing to see how reliable you will be in the future, and remember that being pregnant can make your moods swing around a bit. She really needs support now, so while not being pushy about it, make it absolutely clear that you are in it for the long haul - and mean it and make yourself worthy of that trust. Whoever the other people are that she is referring to, if possible have little contact with them to reassure her.
I think it is great that you want to stick with her at this time and that she still cares for you.
If the other people she is talking about are people who don't want the relationship to continue, maybe you can reassure them of your love for her...and try to discuss it with them, although not knowing your situation I'm not sure if this is appropriate. Maybe they are concerned that you are not compatible in the long term and possibly counseling could help this.

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