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Is it normal for your mate to look at other women and then deny looking?
Both men and women are attracted to other people and will look if they notice a beautiful person. Being involved with another person romantically does not change how beautiful other people are; there are simply customs in place in society that limit the amount of interaction romantically involved people are allowed to have outside of that mutual relationship.
Looking at other people is not wrong; it is completely normal. Also normal is the jealous response many people get from seeing their significant other looking at someone else.
We must understand that we are not the only attractive people in our significant others' lives and that just because they are looking at someone else doesn't mean that they are planning to leave us. Finding someone attractive and wanting to be with them romantically are two completely different things.
If a person looks at someone and their significant other notices, the person doing the looking will weigh the response, self-image/self-esteem, and feelings on the subject of their significant other as well as the likelihood of being able to fool their partner into thinking they were looking at something else, and they will produce a response based on that analysis. Most often, it will be to deny that they were looking at the other person.
Looking at other people is not wrong; it is completely normal. Also normal is the jealous response many people get from seeing their significant other looking at someone else.
We must understand that we are not the only attractive people in our significant others' lives and that just because they are looking at someone else doesn't mean that they are planning to leave us. Finding someone attractive and wanting to be with them romantically are two completely different things.
If a person looks at someone and their significant other notices, the person doing the looking will weigh the response, self-image/self-esteem, and feelings on the subject of their significant other as well as the likelihood of being able to fool their partner into thinking they were looking at something else, and they will produce a response based on that analysis. Most often, it will be to deny that they were looking at the other person.
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Why do men look at other women?
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\nMen may sometimes look at other women because he thinks that they are attractive, but might not be attracted to them. Even if you have a husband… or boyfriend, you might still think some other men are attractive. (Brad Pitt) But still, you have no intention of dating or being in a relationship with them.
Why does your boyfriend look at other women?
The main thing that you have to realize when you wonder why your boyfriend is looking at other girls is that it has nothing to do with you. Men look at women period, it's perf…ectly natural. All men, especially young men have a lot of testosterone pumping through our veins and that makes us instinctively want to seek out mates. Men from the time that we discover that we like women until probably the day we die are always noticing and evaluating pretty much every woman we come across, even if we don't find them particularly attractive. This has no bearing whatsoever on whether your boyfriend might be happy in your relationship or if he might find the girl across the room more attractive then you. Nor is it an indication that he might be cheating or wanting to cheat. It's like if I had a great car that I loved and would never part with, I would still notice other cars on the road. Some might even have nicer tires or a sexy paint job but I have a special bond with my car and I am not about to just trade it in because a flashy convertible catches my eye. Now looking at other girls is a problem though if he is being creepy or obvious about it or doing it in front of you. Then it is disrespectful and you should say something. Don't demand that he stop looking at other girls. It's completely unreasonable to expect that he really will, even if analytically he agrees that he shouldn't want to. He might tell you that he will but he will mostly likely be lying to make you happy and he might start seeing you as insecure and resent you for trying to control him. What you can do though is ask him to not check out other girls in front of you. Doing so front of you is disrespectful and he should at the very least be able to not do it while he is with you. If you are young this might be difficult because during their teens men have a lot more testosterone in them. Just be cool about it and remind him nicely if you catch him slipping. There is nothing more attractive to a guy then a girl who is laid back and secure.
What are men looking at when they look at other women?
what men look for in another woman .
\ni think when i look at another woman it may not even be qualities she might posess but maybe a little recognition on her part . sort …of to reconfirm that i could still attract someone else . and if she is pretty so much the better.
Why does a man look at other women when he is with his mate?
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It is a genetic remnant left over from our days as herd animals. Most herd species have an ALPHA male which is dominant over the herd and tends to do the mating w…ith the females of the herd. Our own inherant genetic need to be the alpha male subconsiously causes men to look and consider additions to his own herd to make the herd or family unit larger and stronger. Our intelligence level actually allows us to surpress and control these urges (in most cases anyways) This applies to women as well. In the female case it is comparing to find the strongest or most powerful alph male.
Why men look at other women?
It's rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what… they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you're with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE....we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer... Women and men are bombarded with unreal images of women everyday and everywhere. Men feel entitled to look and consume all these images and it is doing no good for women. We are constantly feeling insecure about ourselves because all of this objectivity is getting out of control. All the movies have at least one topless woman, women are used to sell everything.... Why do women have to just accept that men will look?....women want to look too...and recent studies have shown that women ARE JUST AS VISUAL and respond EQUALLY to sexual images as men, so those arguments are no longer valid. It is a matter of respect and women are no longer being respected.
When your mate looks at other women isn't it symptomatic of problems and controlling behavior?
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Every time I see a question like yours it blows me away that people can be so petty to think that they only person their mate is ever going to look at is them. There …is nothing wrong with looking at a menue even if that menue is on someone else's body, when it becomes wrong is when that new menue is touched. If you are going to make a big fuss over this, probably you will loose this person you are concerned with.
Why does your husband look at other women?
Because he's a man .
I don't mean to be a smart-ass, but he looks at other women because he's a man and that's the way guy's are programmed. Men stand up to urinate, and th…ey look at other women. Period..
What your husband should learn -- as a matter of manners and etiquette -- is not to look at other women when he's in your presence. To gawk at other women when he's with you is rude..
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He is only human and just as you may look at other men he looks at other women. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it actually it was quite normal and if my husband didn't look I would be more concerned. There is no room in a relationship for negative jealousy. He is with you and is married to you and maybe you need to adjust some things if you are the one with insecurities and issues with trust towards him. Gain your self-confidence and relax its just harmless looking and really if he is doing it in front of you that would only suggest he had nothing to hide from you. You may want to look at the stituation for what it is and find out the real reason what really upsets you about him looking - is it because your insecure or maybe that your married and comfortable and may not look the way you use to or want to.....its just something to think about.
Is it normal for committed women to look at other men?
Of course. Committed isn't 'blind'.
Is it normal for men to look at other women?
yes very normal
They are male and female rabbits Thought you were sold two female and they look like the other one is trying to mate with the other one is this normal?
It's just trying to prove its dominance over the other rabbit, at least, that's the way it is with cats and dogs. It's entirely normal..
It's just trying to prove its dominan…ce over the other rabbit, at least, that's the way it is with cats and dogs. It's entirely normal.
What do you do if your husband looks at other women?
Married or not most men look at other women, but some are just more sneaky about it and it's normal. Women often look at men as well. If your husband is continuously looking… at women while with you and makes any inappropriate comments then let him know how you feel and that you don't like it.
Is it normal to look at other dicks?
All men look even if most will not admit to it. You have to know how you rank in a group. You may be gay, in which case it is perfectly normal. If you find that you are then d…on't worry about it, you will grow into it as you get older. Straight or gay or somewhere in between, we all have to learn how to deal with our sexuality whatever it is.
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Do women have a list of qualities they look for in a mate?
Most women do have a set list of things that they look for, but it most definitely varies between each woman. Also, what a woman wants , sometimes is not what she really …needs .
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Is it normal for your boyfriend to look at other women in front of you?
Of corse it is normal, he is a man. Its their natural instinct to look at other women, but at the end of the day he is your man and not that other girls.
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Why do women look at other men when with you?
Girls just like to have a look. Like when we look at other women most of the time.
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Why would a guy look at other women in front of you then deny doing it most of the time you see him doing it?
Physical attraction is powerful and hardwired into us. However, he would be ashamed to admit it and hence take the "weak path" by denying it. ==== Seeing and looking are …completely different. Because a person or thing intersects someone's gaze does not mean they are looking at it. It is perfectly possible that he doesn't even see what's in front of him. It is also perfectly possible that he is looking. So what? It's harmless and raises the question why it is a concern for you. If you are so disturbed about something so small it might be that you have larger problems with the relationship than you know.
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Is it normal for your dad to look at pictures of women?
You might comment that you notice he is doing so. BUT, he is an adult and it is not your place to correct him or change his life--in privacy, this activity is not illegal. …Answer NO. It is cheating. Your dad shouldn't be. You know why? Because he is choosin 'Pretty'(ugly) women over your mum. It is cheating, as he loves pretty women, not your mum. If this is the case, this is what you should do: 1. Confront your dad. If you arent confident enough to do it in person, then just email him. 2. What to say when confronting. Tell him you know his heart breakin secret. 3. Tell him all of the things your mum does for him. Like, for example, she cooks for him, she does all of the housework, etc. 4. Tell him HOW UNHEALTHY it is to LOOK AT WOMEN. It isn't porn, but it is like porn and very unhealthy to spen the rest of his life doing that rubbish. 5. Tell your dad how he would like it if your mum looks at pictures of men. 6. Tell your dad that is it very very very stupid to hate your mum only because she isn't pretty. 7. Ask your dad: "If you don't love mum, then why don't you tell her that you are looking at pictures of women?? You know, you don't even love her??" 8. Say to him " Mum loves you very much. The only thing that mkes this relationship bad is cause she doesn't know your heartbreaking secret. 9. Tell him that you are watching the web history. When its cleared, you would know hes up to his trick. 10. Tell him that if he ever looks at pictures of women again, he'll be down on his knees. Don't listen to those who say that it is normal for a man. IT ISN'T. People who say that are only guys who look at porn or whatever, and they just want to pursuade kids that it is normal and you shouldn't tell mum. If your dad doens't stop, trust me, tell your mum. If she feels too too too heartbroken, tell her to read the book The Power, as this can solve relationships.(no jokes) I hoped I helped you. Trust me, all of the confronting is WORTH IT. After your finished, give yourself a pat on the back.