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Is it normal for your mate to look at other women and then deny looking?
Both men and women are attracted to other people and will look if they notice a beautiful person. Being involved with another person romantically does not change how beautiful other people are; there are simply customs in place in society that limit the amount of interaction romantically involved people are allowed to have outside of that mutual relationship.
Looking at other people is not wrong; it is completely normal. Also normal is the jealous response many people get from seeing their significant other looking at someone else.
We must understand that we are not the only attractive people in our significant others' lives and that just because they are looking at someone else doesn't mean that they are planning to leave us. Finding someone attractive and wanting to be with them romantically are two completely different things.
If a person looks at someone and their significant other notices, the person doing the looking will weigh the response, self-image/self-esteem, and feelings on the subject of their significant other as well as the likelihood of being able to fool their partner into thinking they were looking at something else, and they will produce a response based on that analysis. Most often, it will be to deny that they were looking at the other person.
Looking at other people is not wrong; it is completely normal. Also normal is the jealous response many people get from seeing their significant other looking at someone else.
We must understand that we are not the only attractive people in our significant others' lives and that just because they are looking at someone else doesn't mean that they are planning to leave us. Finding someone attractive and wanting to be with them romantically are two completely different things.
If a person looks at someone and their significant other notices, the person doing the looking will weigh the response, self-image/self-esteem, and feelings on the subject of their significant other as well as the likelihood of being able to fool their partner into thinking they were looking at something else, and they will produce a response based on that analysis. Most often, it will be to deny that they were looking at the other person.
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Why does your boyfriend look at other women?
The main thing that you have to realize when you wonder why your boyfriend is looking at other girls is that it has nothing to do with you. Men look at women period, it's perf…ectly natural. All men, especially young men have a lot of testosterone pumping through our veins and that makes us instinctively want to seek out mates. Men from the time that we discover that we like women until probably the day we die are always noticing and evaluating pretty much every woman we come across, even if we don't find them particularly attractive. This has no bearing whatsoever on whether your boyfriend might be happy in your relationship or if he might find the girl across the room more attractive then you. Nor is it an indication that he might be cheating or wanting to cheat. It's like if I had a great car that I loved and would never part with, I would still notice other cars on the road. Some might even have nicer tires or a sexy paint job but I have a special bond with my car and I am not about to just trade it in because a flashy convertible catches my eye. Now looking at other girls is a problem though if he is being creepy or obvious about it or doing it in front of you. Then it is disrespectful and you should say something. Don't demand that he stop looking at other girls. It's completely unreasonable to expect that he really will, even if analytically he agrees that he shouldn't want to. He might tell you that he will but he will mostly likely be lying to make you happy and he might start seeing you as insecure and resent you for trying to control him. What you can do though is ask him to not check out other girls in front of you. Doing so front of you is disrespectful and he should at the very least be able to not do it while he is with you. If you are young this might be difficult because during their teens men have a lot more testosterone in them. Just be cool about it and remind him nicely if you catch him slipping. There is nothing more attractive to a guy then a girl who is laid back and secure.
How can your man look at other women and still love you?
As a generalization, it is more common, than not, for men to look at other women. From an "old brain" (diencephalic) perspective, men were conditioned to be always on the look…out for potential fertile mates (in order to procreate and keep the species going). Obviously, this can be problematic in these modern times, in which monogamy is perceived as the norm. Just remember, that his looking doesn't mean that his love for you is any less. But you should let him know how this makes you feel, and remind him that it is not polite to do in your presence. It's just the same that women look at men, expecially if it meets that womens fancy.
When in a relationship why do men look at other women?
us men look at other women because well we are men and we will ALWAYS look at other women but to let you know we still will always love you(except when you get a divorce and f…ight and all that).there are some guys that don't look at women but that's only SOME guys. -Gondovia Men look at other women like paintings. It may be look good, have a nice shape or whatever but that doesn't mean he is going to buy it. Men are visual creatures by nature. Don't take it personally.
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Why men look at other women?
It's rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what… they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you're with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE....we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer... Women and men are bombarded with unreal images of women everyday and everywhere. Men feel entitled to look and consume all these images and it is doing no good for women. We are constantly feeling insecure about ourselves because all of this objectivity is getting out of control. All the movies have at least one topless woman, women are used to sell everything.... Why do women have to just accept that men will look?....women want to look too...and recent studies have shown that women ARE JUST AS VISUAL and respond EQUALLY to sexual images as men, so those arguments are no longer valid. It is a matter of respect and women are no longer being respected.
Do women look at other men in a relationship?
It depend and not all women look for a relationship when they stare or look at a man. When women look at a man, most of the times we only admire how a man bring himself, the w…ay he dress, if he have a cute smile, the way he takes care of his body. Some of us only flirt innocently if the man is very handsome. And sometimes we only look without thinking if we want a relationship.
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How do you cope with your husband looking at other women?
All women have celeb crushes, check out that man in the magazine and might notice when the neighbor starts working out more. It's normal. As long as he isn't whistling and mak…ing it a huge deal there's no reason to worry. All men do it. Women do too(:
Why do men look at other women?
Answer Men may sometimes look at other women because he thinks that they are attractive, but might not be attracted to them. Even if you have a …husband or boyfriend, you might still think some other men are attractive. (Brad Pitt) But still, you have no intention of dating or being in a relationship with them.
Why do women look at other men when with you?
Girls just like to have a look. Like when we look at other women most of the time.
Why does your husband look at other women?
Because he's a man .
I don't mean to be a smart-ass, but he looks at other women because he's a man and that's the way guy's are programmed. Men stand up to urinate, and th…ey look at other women. Period..
What your husband should learn -- as a matter of manners and etiquette -- is not to look at other women when he's in your presence. To gawk at other women when he's with you is rude..
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He is only human and just as you may look at other men he looks at other women. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it actually it was quite normal and if my husband didn't look I would be more concerned. There is no room in a relationship for negative jealousy. He is with you and is married to you and maybe you need to adjust some things if you are the one with insecurities and issues with trust towards him. Gain your self-confidence and relax its just harmless looking and really if he is doing it in front of you that would only suggest he had nothing to hide from you. You may want to look at the stituation for what it is and find out the real reason what really upsets you about him looking - is it because your insecure or maybe that your married and comfortable and may not look the way you use to or want to.....its just something to think about.
How do you stop your boyfriend looking at other women?
Answer you also start looking at other men and make sure that he sees you doing it that will make him think twice b4 he does it again
Why do married men look at other women?
For most men they will look at other women and just because they are married doesn't mean they can't appreciate a nice looking woman. Married women can also look at other men …and some certainly do, but as long as the man and wife just look and don't touch it's all very normal. Just because a married man looks at other women does not mean he is being unfaithful.
Why does a man look at other women when he is with his mate?
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It is a genetic remnant left over from our days as herd animals. Most herd species have an ALPHA male which is dominant over the herd and tends to do the mating w…ith the females of the herd. Our own inherant genetic need to be the alpha male subconsiously causes men to look and consider additions to his own herd to make the herd or family unit larger and stronger. Our intelligence level actually allows us to surpress and control these urges (in most cases anyways) This applies to women as well. In the female case it is comparing to find the strongest or most powerful alph male.
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Why does a married women look at other men?
It's our curiosity, just like men married of not they love to stare at woman who looks good and has some style. Sometimes when we see a man who looks good, dress up nicely and… all muscles, and our husband looks like couch potato it's only an admiration.
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What are men looking at when they look at other women?
what men look for in another woman i think when i look at another woman it may not even be qualities she might posess but maybe a little recognition on her …part . sort of to reconfirm that i could still attract someone else . and if she is pretty so much the better.
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Why do men always look at other women?
Men are not the only ones who look- women look also because it is human nature. Men identify love with sex. Perhaps you should spice things up more often. If that does not wor…k and he is constantly looking at other women in front of you when you ask him to stop- then it is probably time to dump him because he is obviously a dog. It's rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you're with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer.
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Normal to look at other guys in the shower at 13?
well, that depends... i see there is two possibilities here: a) you're just going through a pretty typical teenage stage where you feel the need to 'find your place in socie…ty' and so you could be merely comparing yourself against other guys. There are societies in the past where social rank was based quite significantly on penis size; some nordic societies actually labelled men with impotency issues as women it is natural to want to find your place in society, but using other guys' bodies to do so will only likely make it harder to find that place. there are many more important social cues that help to do that. B) you're gay, and there is nothing wrong with that, and don't let anyone tell you any different. there is lots of current scientific evidence to suggest that people are born, not made gay. the question of 'decisions' is now being less respected. a man doesn't 'decide' to be tall/short, blonde/black-haired or straight/gay. if you're worried about religious backlashes, remember that the bible for example, used to aslo say that it was appropriate to enslave blacks... and that's just abhorrent. most religious texts were written with 'law' that is designed to help the people of that time... eg) Muslims not eating pork has been traced to various contractable diseases that cross species lines from humans to pigs and back again. so in summary, you're either trying to find your place in society or gay. IN EITHER INSTANCE, what you are doing is normal. don't worry about it so much. live in the moment, and be cool yeah?