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Just as normal as not being pregnant and not wanting to be around someone. Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes the babies daddy is the mistake. I wouldn't worry about it. Since you are about to be a mom maybe your just "cleaning house". There must be a reoson and only you know it, you should trust your instincts and drop him. It is better than living in a loveless relationship, making a baby does not mean happily ever after.
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Answer . I know its very hard being in a situation with a baby and feeling you no longer want the relationship with the father. You need to decide if leaving is what you …really want, is he not being supportive or are you not in love with him anymore. What do you see as your future with this person. If your mind is made up be responsible tell him and leave if its safe to do things that way. If you know he will be violent wait till he leaves pack as much as you can get help from family if possible and leave. You dont want to be unhappy the rest of your life, your baby can sense things are not right with you. GOOD LUCK!
No you do not have to marry him. Years ago, that would be a very common practice, to marry the baby's father. But in today's society, that is becoming more scarce. Als…o, today, there are loads of resources out that for singles mothers. But even with them, the road ahead could be very trying and difficult.
Yes, she can refuse, but a judge will order the test if she is not married. If she is married, her husband is legally the father.
The baby's father is the person whom you had sexual intercourse with since your last menstrual period despite contraceptives. If you had multiple partners in this time, …it could be any one of those men who fertilized that egg. In theory, you could rule out the ones with whom you did use a contraceptive in that case but it is still possible. If that is the case, you will either have to wait until the baby is born as see if he or she is the splitting image of one of the men, or, if it's hard to tell which one still, a DNA test may be in order.
If you want to break up with your baby's father because he doesn't help support the child are you wrong?
I think it is natural to expect some help from the father in raising a child, but there is a lot more to a relationship than money... so be sure to consider the whole picture …and not just one aspect of it as you make a decision. i think it depends on whether or not you want your child to have a father in his/her life. but you could break up with him and he could still be in the child's life, like visiting and stuff like that. i grew up without a father i never really knew who he was. but if you find someone (after you and baby daddy break up, if you do) who loves you and the child and is willing to help support someone else's kid, then that is a good man right there... oi... i kinda talked a lot... my bad...
This is a perfectly normal and expected response. As the hormone change during early pregnancy a female is likely to have many emotional issues; these issues are could be to d…o with worrying about body changes, impending fear of motherhood. As a new father to be all you can do is be there for your girlfriend; be supportive, be there when she needs you, and be prepared to take the back seat when she needs you to.
It is assumed that you are not married. The decision whether or not to have the baby is yours. If you decide to continue with the pregnancy, once the child is born you can req…uest a DNA test through the family court system. The man you have identified as the father must comply. Once his paternity is established legally, the court will enter a child support order based on state child support guidelines and he can request joint custody and/or a visitation schedule.
I am a women who is career oriented and pregnant the baby's father dont want the baby should i keep it or abort it?
This is something you need to think long and hard about. Even if the babys father doesnt want it, you need to decide if YOU want it. I can only imagine how hard it would… be for a woman to abort her unborn child so make sure you get lots of advice from friends and family before making any hasty choices.
A minor can only be allowed to move with parental consent after a certain age. Pregnancy makes no difference. A minor is also not allowed to have sex (even if she's already pr…egnant) so moving in with the boyfriend would clearly increase the risk for that so that would not be appropriate. You are not even allowed to see your boyfriend, or him you, without the consent of both your parents. He is allowed to see the baby once it's born but seeing you is up to your parents just like it's up to his if he's a minor and you want to see him.
If an unmarried woman wants to give up her baby for adoption does she have to tell the baby's father?
no but it would save you from a guilty mind
If you alegally a minor in your State of residence (under 18 in most states, 19 in Nebraska and Alabama). Your parents are legally responsible for you and can direct you…r activities within the law. Restricting who you can have contact with would be considered a normal activity of a parent in most circumstances. So, yes they can keep you from the baby's father. If you get married you become emancipated and they have no control over you.
Hi there honestly you are the winner here. Being pregnant is one of the most beautiful things that could ever happen to a woman. You need to be strong, need to understand that… God was also part of you being where you are now, so think of it as a God send. I speak like this because I too was in the same situation 7 years ago. I know every two persons aren't the same but I must say this I am a very happy person now. My daughter dad was either adoption or abortion were the only two options he gave me. I choose neither. I kept my baby. Not long after he came round more and more often to visit her. She had always been a happy baby and this I guess made life as a single mum was much easier. It becomes easier as time goes by. The other problem was his grand ma having a problem with me. (this is where he got his advice from in the first place.) Anyway when my daughter was 3 year old I have never felt prouder, she was such a smart little girl. At 5 years my daughter kept on talking to us about getting married and believe it or not we did get married in Summer 2008. Remember this is what you need right now. You need to take control of your life now. If you can't you will not be able to look after your unborn baby. Remember eat well and sleep well. Pray and thank God. You will be OK. The thing is when a man thinks a woman depends on him it drains him. Be a bit more independent and be strong. Take control of YOUR LIFE. He might be very scared if its his first child. He might need time to think of what exactly is happening. They are always luck because we are the ones carrying the baby. so they think its OK for them to run. We are thinking of our second and I still ask over and over if he is sure. Good luck and God Bless you to have the strength that you need. You will get lots of help. Trust me.
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No they don't. It is not as dangerous to carry a negative baby if you are positive. It is extremely dangerous for a woman to carry a positive baby if she has negative blo…od. However most negative women will lose positive babies. The doctors said my mum was lucky because out of 6 positive babies she lost one and that was because she was on a bouncy castle.
If there is a Rhesus incompatibility between father and mother it may be necessary to change the baby's blood immediately after birth. This will need a surgical team and blo…od of the right group. Being aware of the possibility of a "blue baby" the doctors can perform screening tests in advance, and take any necessary steps for the delivery.
Absolutely, you can. They used to think this wasn't the case (made for weird court proceedings in Medieval Europe), but the woman's arousal doesn't have much to do with the od…ds of fertilization. So condoms, condoms, condoms, or whatever you use.
Not legally no.
Can the mother of a 17 yo pregnant woman keep the daughter away from the baby's 18 year old father in the state of Kentucky?
Yes, you can get a restraining order if they do not listen. Age of consent is 16 there but that only means the sex was legal, not that they themselves decide who they meet. Th…e parents decide who their minors meet. Once she turns 18, you can not stop them. When the baby is born he will have the right to his child but whether they are allowed to see each other if she is still a minor, is up to you. But also remember she is pregnant and both you and I know how important it is to have your partner there both before, during and after birth. This is a emotional time for any woman and especially when still a teen. A teen mom run a higher risk for postpartum depression.