Sweety your way to young to feel down on yourself. If you feel like your husband is not paying enough attenttion to you then tell him how you feel, are you scared he's going to leave you? or do you not want to go to his country? if so you have to tell him and let him know because your opinion counts just as much as anyone elses.
He married in another state and didn't know he was still legally married to someone else
If you are already legally married and "got married" in another country you are committing bigamy, which is a crime. It can get you deported and even jailed. Also, your second "marriage" is invalid.
This depends on the laws of the country in which you reside. Generally it is against the law to be married to more then one person at a time.
You get divorced in the country where you live, not where you got married.
No because she is still married with another husband
No. If the other person is legally married to another person in another state, then your marriage is not valid in the USA. You can have be legally married to one person at a time.
can a woman get Her deceased Husband's SS,even if she is married to another man
Not if he is still legally married to you.
a man who is married to another man
divorce him
she's happily married, for now, even though her husband isn't working anymore
You already have a husband and just because you want another husband unless you divorce your first husband (at least in Western Countries) then you would be a bigamist which is against the law. File for your divorce; get the divorce and you are free to find another husband.