What would you like to do?
Most abusers firmly believe that their abusive conduct is proof and indication of deep love. In their thwarted minds, abuse, intimacy, and love are inextricable. … The saddest part is that many (but not all) abusers really ARE in love (whatever that means, it's such a subjective term) with their partners, and deep inside are quite horrified by the abuse they inflict.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Me and my wife were on the verge of divorce when i left for Iraq i get back and things have turned around i couldn't love her more. Remind… him why he fell for you in the first place.
Answer When your husband falls out of love, he'll be more distant and he'll give bad or NO sex.
Unfall out of it!!
Try talking with him and let him know how you feel and what you would like to see happen between you two. Take it slowly and remind one another what it was like in the b…eginning and what attracted you two in the first place. Don't try to go back into the same groove you were in try to take a new road of communication and being open minded with one another. Be willing to try new things and make things more exciting with one another.
Your husband will not talk to you much. He will also not want to kiss you or spend time alone with you.
Anything is possible, but acting on it would not be acceptable. In my opinion, if a person can no longer honor their marriage vows, they ought to file for divorce prio…r to straying. The only exception to this would be the rare 'open' marriage in which both spouses have agreed upon their own particular rules of fidelity. And I wouldn't take a cheating spouse's word for it that theirs was an open marriage.
LOve can't be forced. sorry to break it to you but you can't make yourself fall in love with someone.
If he will agree to work with you on the relationship and take some time, you are golden. It takes two and we are not always fully in love. It ebbs and flows. If either or… both of you have been acting badly, straighten up and be kind to one another.
The following answer presupposes that your partner has not abused you, or been unfaithful, in any way. This is an issue that comes down, in part, to one's own attitude. I…t all depends on whether you have changed in yourself, your attitude and expectations, or whether you still maintain the same attitude you have always had in your marriage. If you think that, because you have never loved your husband, it cannot happen, then it will not happen. If you start thinking more about your partner instead of yourself, it can happen. It has been shown that, by consciously adopting a positive mindset that you will choose to show affection in physical ways, e.g. by doing little things for your spouse and making only positive comments, a person really can change his or her feelings about his/her spouse. A loveless marriage can be revived. Counselling is highly recommended, as it can focus you to think on the positive. However, you would need to find someone who helps repair marriages, and does not turn you to focus on the "me" in marriage. Avoid thinking "he doesn't do anything for me", and start thinking "what can I do for him?" It can make a positive difference. You need to be prepared to be honest with yourself, and truly evaluate how you can change, not what you would like your partner to do, to change. The articles at the links below may help.
Its called lust & lust is a sin
To make your husband love you means you have to love yourself first.
Most of the time when a woman falls in love with another womans husband, he too was attracted to her. It always takes two to tango! Most likely he wasnt happy in his marriage …and she just happend to be the one there for him at that time. woman always want to be loved and feel loved at any cost. Its not intentional all the time. But there are some woaman who only want married men. but woman do not intentionally fall in love with somebody elses husband, they just fall in love.
You are lumping two separate issues into one question. Frankly, I'm pretty sure that you're confused about what 'love' is, but that's a different issue again. If… you find yourself 'out of love' with your husband, what have you done to make your marriage better? One of the most important parts of being married is to be able to communicate with each other when you aren't happy. If you were once attracted to him and now you're not; that wasn't love and you married him under false pretenses (not necessarily on purpose, perhaps in ignorance). When you were married, you made commitments to another person. That is an issue between you and your husband and must be worked out between you and your husband. If you use your attraction to the new man as an excuse, it is only an attraction which will also fade in time and it is only an excuse to avoid dealing with your real problem. Bottom line, you can't fix one mess by starting a new one. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- You should ignore the someone else until you are no longer committed to your husband. Truly, it is easier to work with the husband you have than to start over again with someone else you are infatuated with. Love comes with a strong relationship over time.
i don't know why i love with him best friend
Yes, sometimes they do.
If your husband says he doesn't love you anymore get divorced ,you need to move on from a loveless marriage before that do go in for couple counselling