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Why would a spouse you suspect of cheating hold on yet try to catch you in lies and spy on you?
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∙ 6y ago
Guilty Conscious
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I would say to make an attempt to show he/she is just so in to you, plus they need to keep up with your whereabouts so they can do their dirt. I know, I've just gone through that. My husband would call me constantly "to see where I am" only to find out he was cheating on me the entire time. This reminds me of ''The best defense is a good offense.'' (i.e. if you are verbally attacked, attack back, and it'll keep 'em guessing). My husband does this to me ALL the time. He calls me every hour on the hour to see where i am or what im doing and who im doing it with. Only to find out, he wasnt working like he said, but was with another woman that i know. This woman takes my children to and from school. This woman used to be a close friend of mine. My husband comes home from work, straight to the bathroom to shower and change. Puts his own clothes in the hamper or wash. Im sitting home with 3 kids and he knows i cant go everywhere all the time, so he makes plans with his pals to go out when im unable to up and go. That's when he meets up with her. Ive been with him 11 yrs. I want to leave, but my children will suffer from all this. I love him as a person, but im not in love with him. I cant be. He has done this since my second child, ive took him back and forgave him, BUT i couldn't forget. I cant trust him at all. He tells me all the time he hates coming home to me, that im nothing, and that the only reason he hasn't left yet is because he doesnt want to pay all that child support (3 kids). I don't know really what to do. Im trying to do whats right for my kids, but is it worth it to be miserable all your life? Leave him for your kids, let you kids learn how NOT to be abused. You will be happy again.
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Do you picture your spouse cheating again?
yes you would if you did not trust her or he if you totally trust them you you wouldn't but if not you would
Would cheating on your sick spouse be cause to have power of attorney taken away?
Your spouse can take it away at any time. The court would certainly believe that you would not be representing the best interests of your spouse at that point.
Your spouse cheating if she had dinner and drinks with a old friend and did not say anything about it?
I feel that if anyone keeps a secret from their spouse about being with someone that they know you would not approve of is Cheating.... If she felt that it wasn't wrong she would have told you. That is plain sneaking around to me... I would keep my eyes open if I was you....
Is it possible to fulfill most signs of cheating and not be cheating?
I read a statistic once that said that 85% of women who suspect their husbands are cheating are correct in their suspicions, and 50% of men who suspect their wives are cheating are correct. To answer your question, of course anything is possible. I wouldn't focus on the standard "signs" as much as I would focus on trusting your own instincts.
Would alimony be awarded if spouse is cheating?
Yes. ANSWER: I don't think so. When a spouse commit adultery or cheating the law can not do anything about it. When a couples do get divorce and there's kids involve, the husband is responsible to support his kids especially if they are under age.
Could you really trust your spouse to change if the affair he had would be his last?
When a spouse breaks that bond of trust it will take several months to possibly a year or more (of good behavior) for that cheating husband to earn the trust back from their spouse. The victim of a cheating spouse should never make it easy for the cheater to come back into their lives and continue on as if nothing has happened, but, they should not harp at the cheating spouse or the relationship would wither away. To err is human and sometimes either men or women make a mistake and cheat, but some never cheat again while others may find themselves cheating over and over again. This is why it is important for the victim of cheating to tell their spouse they will only take them back if they agree to go to marriage counseling where the marriage counselor can give them the tools to correct the weak areas in the marriage. If the cheating spouse refuses, then it is better to walk away from the marriage.
How does your spouse act if he is cheating on you?
There is no single way someone would act in the given circumstances. People are different and would act differently.
Define not to cheat?
I think its not doing anything that would hurt the other, lying, secrets, hiding thing, even phone calls are a form of cheating if you don't tell you spouse about it... if its sneaky its a form of cheating.. so if you are Not doing these type of actives I would say your not cheating.
What is the number one reason for divorce?
Money. It is the root of all evil... I would say Marriage! Without it there would not be divorce.
Can you divorce if spouse is gay?
Yes. If you can prove he had an affair and had an affair with another man, then you have grounds for divorce just like if the man was cheating with another woman. Unless of course it's a "gay" marriage, then I think that would defeat the purpose don't you. The same above would also apply if the spouse is female and is cheating on the man with another woman.
What to do if you are involved in a extramarital relationship?
Get out of the relationship. If he/she is cheating on their spouse, they are a cheater. Why would you want to be in a relationship with a cheater? If he/she cheats on their spouse, they will most likely cheat on you too. Plus, it's breaking one of the 10 Comandments.
Would you continue to be sexual with your partner if you suspected him or her of cheating?
The answer is different for everyone based on the situation. For serious relationship issues, you should seek counseling. However, if your partner is in fact cheating, there is a chance they could contract an STD and pass it on to you. If you suspect that they are cheating, it would be wise to use protection if you continue to have sexual relations.
