Abusers can be different with all women. They may have abused you immediately and not be hurting the other woman, but that doesn't mean that they never will! He will try to convince everyone that he would never do such a thing and make it seem like you are the one that abused him. Don't fall into the trap. Stay away from the drama, do not contribute to the argument. Sometimes the other woman will get in the middle and try to blame you for the failure in your prior relationship. Do not listen to it. Soon enough the truth will come out.
You need to rephrase this, there is no question here
Give him time. He will.
Unless your ex has a police record/jail time for DV, there would be no way to tell. A private Detective can access old records.
yES; There is nothing you cannot cure yourself of when you ADMIT YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. A man or woman CAN CHANGE with counseling, a lot of self discipline, and CONSTANT WORK. Yes, men AND women, with help and counseling, CAN remarry and correct themselves.
no. i have no idea why you would ask that. that is OBVIOUSLY not ever going to happen. if it does, that person makes me sick.
tell him or record it and make him listen to it
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It is possible to forgive anything but that doesn't mean forgetting. I would not want a rapist / child abuser as a husband. They will only attack again. A wife of a child abuser isn't a real wife.
Dogs either do nothing because they are scared or they attack the abuser...
I have been abused by my so called husband and when i left, till today he has never tryied to even call.
Well you can visit and offer some friendly advice. Visiting is way of showing love.
You need to call the police and give them all the information you can, perhaps notify an adult family member of the abuser if appropriate, and then accept that there is nothing else you can do. The abuser needs professional help- he is not your responsibility. His attempts may not be real and he may be just trying to manipulate you.