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After your spouse affair is there any help to save your marriage?
Mgodat
- When a spouse has had an affair and broken that bond of trust it is difficult to earn back. Going to marriage counseling may help the situation and explain to the spouse that marriage counseling is not about blaming one of the spouses, but giving them tools to learn to communicate in their marriage and know how to rectify any future problems in their marriage. Many couples may have experienced one spouse having an affair and it is not uncommon for both couples to have an affair, but, they do manage to save their marriage. It is entirely up to the couple.
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Do you want to save your marriage from the affair?
yes
Is it worth going to a marriage seminar to save your marriage?
Only if you value your spouse and your marriage.
What are the odds of saving your marriage?
If the spouse does not constantly cheat and made one mistake by having an affair then talking it out in a calm manner and facing how you both can improve upon the marriage may save the marriage or, you both could go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with every day life's stresses. If the spouse is constantly cheating; may be on drugs or abuses alcohol or is constantly verbally or physically harmful to their spouse it is best to move on. There is a good rate of successful marriages if one spouse has only had one affair if the couple decide to make it work. 'To err is human.'
How could one save a marriage as a man?
Depending on the relationship, a man can try and save his marriage by acting compassionately. A man can try and romance his wife to try and make things work by putting the spark in their marriage. Showing interest in their spouse can also help a man save a rocky marriage.
Is it to much too handle if you want to save your relationship after your spouse affair?
That's your decision. First step would be marriage counseling.If the cheating partner is unwilling, the prospects don't look good.
What else can you do to save your marriage if your spouse is not helping you?
See a licensed marriage therapist, even if you have to go by yourself.
What would you do if your spouse betrayed your trust would you fix your marriage or go for divorce?
If this was the first time the spouse cheated and they are remorseful and want to stay in the marriage then yes, it is worth trying to save the marriage by seeing a marriage counselor who is not there to blame either spouse, but to give them the tools to strengthen their marriage. If the spouse continually cheats then it is best to get a divorce.
What will you do if your spouse told you the marriage is over?
if you have done everything you can to try to save the marriage than the best thing for you to do is move on.
Did Bob Bowersox have an affair?
Bob is divorced. He wrote a book about how to save your marriage. Oops.
Does an infidelity in marriage automatically mean the end?
If a spouse has only one extramarital affair then it does not mean the end of a marriage, but only that the marriage is in trouble and most of it is caused by lack of communication so each spouse knows how the other feels. Sometimes spouses are married so long that the magic has gone out of their marriage and they may need to get away together on a bit of a romantic holiday even if it is just a weekend away at something you both enjoy. If a spouse is constantly having affairs then yes, it is probably the end of the marriage because the spouse cannot commit to one person and has a disregard for their spouse. Marriage counseling is another good way to learn tools to save the marriage, but often the male spouse is not open to airing out his marriage problems with a counselor.
What do you do when you are trying to save your marriage but your spouse is not?
ou might suggest couples counciling but you have to do it together.
How can you survive an affair of your spouse and save your self respect?
If this is a one time affair your spouse has had then 'to err is human' and if they are remorseful you have a greater chance of saving your marriage. Instead of worrying about your self respect realize that percentages of affairs between married couples is high and that you are not the only person dealing with this problem. Take the bull by the horns and let your spouse know that you are not putting up with another affair and the both of you should seek counseling. The Counselor is not there to blame one or both partners, but to give the couple tools to help them through their marriage problems. Keep your head high because you were not the one that cheated and no matter how high the statistics of one spouse cheating on another it is still unacceptable in society. If your spouse has cheated more than once then pack then you are far better to file for divorce because the statistics are high they will cheat again.
