Yes!
Yes and no. Orthodox Jews follow ALL Jewish wedding traditions while Reform Jews make their own decisions.
Ana Schwartzman has written: 'Make your own Jewish wedding' -- subject(s): Jewish Marriage customs and rites, Planning, Weddings
All weddings are special in their own ways. Jewish weddings may have unfamiliar customs to some people, but the wedding is beautiful and congratulates the bride and groom.
Sometimes. She can also make her own wedding dress.
I wouldn't call it preferences. It would depend on the individual wedding situation itself. Some people write their own wedding vows.
There is no specific music that is used during the procession of a Jewish wedding. The "Bridal Chorus" isn't used because the composer Richard Wanger was a well documented anti-semite.
Kate Middleton did her own make-up for her wedding.
That's up to you! You can buy, rent, or make your own wedding dress.
You can design your own wedding invitations and order them from Vistaprint. Or if you are gifted in graphic design, you could easily make your own using Photoshop.
Yahoo voices has a guide titled "How to Make Your Own Headband Wedding Veil". It gives you the supply list and the guide on making one so check it out.
You can learn how to make your own wedding invitations on sites like Wedding Wire. There are also DIY wedding invitation kits available at Staples and Michaels that are pretty user friendly.
Some free wedding websites are the Knot, Wedding Channel, and Wedding Wire. They offer all kinds of wedding help and you can even make your own wedding page.