No! If he can't commit to you then kick him to the curb. If he is back in your life off and on, then there is a reason why he is coming back and it's because you enable the situation. If it were me I would move on. I was married before to a mental/physical abuser who cheated and I kicked his butt to the curb and never looked back. I was taught by my parents that if I treat others with respect I should expect it back and if I didn't get it, then it was time to move on. That I did. I moved away from him, got an apartment, changed jobs, filed for divorce. A few years later I met and married a wonderful man and we've been married almost 34 years. I'm so glad I didn't waste my life on my first husband. I hope you do the same thing and realize you are worth much more than just someone waiting around for an ex husband. Good luck Marcy
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We have no idea since we don't know you. I would say you feel insecure in your relationship.
you should have left him 7 years ago
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At two years old his father left him and his mom. Then they moved in with his grandparrents from his mom`s side. Then at ten years his mom left him for a new husband. And from then on he was raised by his grandmother.
my husband left ten years ago and i have not seen him since and i would like a divorce i lost touch with his family when his mother died sincerly from Massachusetts
Narcissists have a natural ability to turn any situation in their favor (in their own minds, of course!). If they feel it is important that they are the one who "left" the relationship, then in their minds, they are, in fact, the one who left the relationship. If it were to their benefit that you "left" the relationship, then that is the way it would be (in their own minds, of course!). There is no way to change the mind of the N and the N will so adamantly believe they left the relationship, the belief becomes the truth for them. You do know that it is of no importance who exited the relationship. The important factor is that you are free of the narcissist and if you have any hope of living a peaceful life, you will keep it that way!
husband left just comes home and takes shower then leave doesnt send the night can i get for abandament
Yes. It is very possible.
It seems to be most common for the husband to be buried on the left, and the wife on the right.
If your last relationship has left you scarred then you should wait until you are over it.