How can you make your son obedient?

You cannot make your son obedient, but by your own example he may learn obedience Let him know that by being obedient can bring its own rewards. Obedience bring order out of chaos. One word of advice, do not promise a material reward for his obedience, this will only bring about more disobedience. Being obedient brings about its own blessings. It is permissible to add a punishment that is fitting for the disobedient son.