How can you tell your husband loves another woman?

Answer 1

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The only ways to actually "know" are for him to confess (fat chance) or to catch him (you have to play dumb to catch him, if he knows you're suspicious he'll cover his tracks. There are probably more clues than either of you realize so keep your eyes and ears open WIDE).

If he's been out late and you think he's been creeping, take his underwear out of the laundry the next day, and if you have the money, take them to a DNA lab. If there is female DNA that doesn't match yours, get a detective and/or a lawyer.

Answer 2

He spends a lot of time at the office or where ever he works. He is make excuses to go places for a long time with out you and he is getting "farther" away from you in your relationship.

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This is the worst feelings that a woman or a wife could ever have. But if you don't mind I will answer your question through my past experience. When I discovered my husband's affair, I was devastated and it's almost x-mas. I can't never believed that after 21 years of being devoted, giving my heart and my soul he betrayed me and my kids. The only thing that I did wrong was being there for him. Initiate the intimacy since I can remember it. Gave him 3 beautiful children. It was very painful to me and that morning was the day that my life changed.

I never knew that he was already having an affair for 2 months, the only thing I noticed was, he seems to be in a hurry all the time going to work. His office was in our 2 car garage and that's where it happened. By joining the dating site, to exchanging emails to those women he met through internet. Because he teaches part time during night that was his way of meeting this other woman. I asked him why and what was this woman have that I don't have, he told me. He also told me that his falling in love with her, that is why I said this is the worst feeling a wife can have.

I never knew that he can easily give his heart to this woman after all the things I had done being his wife. I am better off to be alone with my kids now because I can't take him back after what he told me about his mistress.

Answer 3

well this happen to me I didnt have a clue but he treated me awful which I cant say I enjoy it I'm so use to him treated me so bad all the time i didnt relize what the heck was going on. but his girlfriend of a year and a half came to me and told me, that's when i started checking his phone logs on his cell phone and there was more than her i called every single number and asked these women there names and how they knew my husband.also i put a digetal voice recorder everyday in his car and hided it and when he came home from work i would find a way to go get it and waited till he went to sleep are i left somewhere to listen to excatly what he was doing and where he was stoppiong. good luck try it it works and you will find out so much do not tell him though no matter what

Answer 4

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Hi! I will give you the sign that the man I married did or show when he was having an affair. We are also having a problem with our relationship.

1- he looks happy as soon as he woke up in the morning. Even he only have 3-4 hours sleep at night.

2- wherever he goes he will make sure that he can call her, even for a brief moment.

3- even when his working, he does call her, especially at night.

4- he take a shower twice a day and dress himself to look good. Wearing a cologne.

5- as soon as he gets home he will great our children, then go straight to his office area so he can called her.

6- he visited her twice a week while she was working, and spent a few hours with her during her days off.

7- bought her a gift and a flower.

8- they attended a church sermon, because their faith are alike

9- on a weekend mostly he will stayed in his office area so they can talk on the phone, sometimes only coming out when dinner is ready.

This are what he did, and yes he did admit his feelings for this woman. So if your husband is doing this things, his already deep with feelings for the other woman. I hope this helps you and I do am sorry that you are going through what I went through. Just be strong and maybe when time persist, it will be a bot easier. Never loose your faith, you needed it badly..

Answer 5

Unless your husband tells you so it's very hard to prove that your husband is in fact in love with another women, changes in his behavior might make you think that he is in fact being unfaithful but it doesn't mean he's in love with the other person, the best way is the ask but be prepared for an answer that can be a lie. All i can say is a relationship is a commitment and this is built mainly on trust.

Answer 6

Second-guessing gets a person into a lot of trouble. I have no idea what has happened to people when it comes to the word COMMUNICATION! If you feel ignored, your sex life is a little dull and your husband doesn't seem to be paying a lot of attention to you then it's time to sit down and start communicating and this is something you should have learned throughout your marriage. With two people working, having children, paying bills, etc., it's one fast-paced life and people can lost personal contact with each other so easily. It's wise to take at least an hour out of the both of your day and ask how the other is doing and if there are problems then try to come to some amicable agreement. Sometimes husbands work at jobs that may require shift-work, they have a lot of responsibility and stress and are extremely tired when they get home. Some men can be depressed and from 40 up (it use to be called "Midlife Crisis) it is now called "Adropause" similar to women's perimenopause and men can become edgy, moody, depressed and even experience hot flashes. They may have to have their Testosterone levels checked out. Heart disease and Diabetes can lower the libido and make the person cranky, lethargic as well as a low libido and certain medications can also do this. So, it's important to sit down and communicate and stop the second-guessing.