It is best to work with the law on this one. If your husband is extremely abusive, there are Women's Centres to go too. They will often help you in the direction of legal council and you need to get your husband out of your life before you start a new one.
You must also have a plan (including your children)and the new man in your life as to what and where you are to go after you leave your abusive husband and, with luck attain a divorce. If you feel your abusive husband would make problems for you, your children or the new man in your life, then it really best to move if you can. If this is not possible then you will get much help from the Women's Centre. There should be one in your area. Please phone Mental Health and they will lead you in the right direction.
Good luck!
Marcy
Be careful before jumping into another "serious" relationship too fast....you don't even have time to catch your breath. If he loves you, he'll wait a while until you settle down and will help you when you need it (physical and emotional support). Remeber, actions speak louder than words. If I was in your situation, I'd prioritize myself and my kids. then the new boyfriend. your kids really need your attention at a 100%.... Don't be shy, if you are able, to get help from a doctor/psychologist etc.
I left my abusive (ex) husband with VERY careful planning...don't do it on the spur of the moment. My ex-husband became very controlling, then physically abusive about 4 months into the marriage...in addition to physical abuse, he would check my email, check my cell messages (which i used for business) and would stand outside my place of business for my whole shift. I planned a way to leave, but it took 6 months to implement. I made sure I had enough money, that I had the law on my side and that I secured the longest restaining order possible. you HAVE to plan it...wait till he abuses you the most, let the bruises and cuts develope then go down to social services...document everything he does to you. You can get past this and have a happy life. Alicia
The children of course already know things aren't going well with mom and dad. If they are young (not late teens +) there is no real way you can really explain abuse to them. Their little minds won't wrap around it, and all they see (no matter how bad the abuse is) is the fact mom and dad won't be living together and they will be frightened. Before you go down this road I suggest you talk to a counselor yourself and also speak to a child psychologist. You definitely need to get away from the abuse, but there is a healthy way to do it. Many people feel it's best for a couple with marriage problems or abuse problems to stay together for the sake of the children and that's the furthest from the truth. If it's as serious as abuse (mental/physical), Alcoholism, drugs, etc., then what children see they learn. It's up to the healthy parent to take charge and get the children into a safe environment. If the children are of age and not at home, then sit them down and tell them you are leaving their father. I bet you will be quite shocked that your children have been wondering why you didn't leave their father long before now. Good luck hon Marcy
by leaving him and staying in you mom's place.
It probably does some damage to the dog- abusive
If he is that out of control, you may have to be the one leaving.
For leaving her husband and children
Yes. If there is a will and the children are not included, they're not included. If, say, a husband/father dies without a will and wife remains, wife inherits all whether she is mother of husband's children or not.
Answer Leaving to gain control in an abusive relationship won't help you much. You will never gain control over a person who is mentally sick by leaving him or her. This person needs help and either you stand by them while they get professional help or you leave because you feel it's the thing to do. Don't leave for all the wrong reasons and later regret your move, if you have children and this person won't go for help, then leave as fast as you can because your children will eventually be affected by your choice to stay in an abusive relationship. Good luck
For leaving her husband and children
quietly do not let him know you are leaving. An abusive husband is a very common and serious problem. if you have plans to move in with your ex boyfriend then do it secretly make sure he is asleep or at least an hour or 2 away. if you receive threats do not answer he will find you. if he threatens you again go to the police it is no longer a small enough problem, CALL THE POLICE!!!
Yes. They should have the will drafted by an attorney who specializes in probate and is familiar with state laws. A testator who wants to disinherit adult children must do it properly for the will to be effective.
because he is in love with the girl and hopes she will leave her husband to be with him the woman should kindly explain to him that she is happily married and has no plans of leaving her husband if he keeps persisting go to a friend explain to them what's happening and try to stay away from him
Depending on how abusive your husband is and how far he will go it is wise to have male family members or even the police accompany you while you remove your contents from where you live. Do not attempt this alone! You can also call the Abused Women's Shelter where you can go and explain your circumstances and they will put you into a Safe House with other abused women and your husband will not know where you are. They will help you with the process of getting your contents from the house; legal advice (also will provide legal counsel in a court of law) and will help you find a job. In return they do expect you to take programs to learn tools to help yourself and become independent and know the danger signs of any male who is abusive. Many women go back to their abusive boyfriends or husbands because they have been told enough they are useless and the woman is left with little confidence so it's important to seek help from the Abused Women's Shelter. You can phone your Mental Health in your town for the number of the Women's Shelter.
i think you can can can be charge with child neglect!