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How do you get your boyfriend to trust you when he says he can never trust a girl again?
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∙ 12y ago
It is unfortunate that one person probably wrecked this boys trust issues for others. If you are the one that he cannot trust then it will be very hard but if you have been one that has been trustworthy then you must have a conversation with him concerning this. Ask him to give you a chance you are not the person that caused him to feel this way For people that have trust issues it is very hard for them them to not project those feelings on everyone and use it in every aspect of their lives just not trusting. Sometimes visiting a counsellor is very helpful if he is willing and if he is comfortable enough maybe you could go with him or sit in one sometime. He must realize that not everyone will treat him the way someone did and in order for your relationship to work as well he must be able to feel he can trust you.
If he does not like the idea of any of this then you may have to rethink your relationship because trust issues can become a real problem from minor to even fatal it is not something to tread with lightly.
And consider that most guys who use that line, when with a girl, wants you to prove yourself to him. If you don't, he will drop you. Often he has used it before and one day he might tell another trusting soul about the terrible girl who made him lose faith in all girls. You. It's hard to believe it when you are in love, but some guys lie.
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How can you get your boyfriend to trust you again if you cheated on him with your ex eight months ago and he still doesn't trust you?
I would suggest you really stop and think...Why do you want to stay? If your boyfriend was truly for you, and you were in love, you would never have cheated or lied. Please stop wasting your time and his time. I don't mean to be harsh, but grow up girl, and be a woman. Leave him alone and move on. You will find your true love in time. By staying and begging for trust, you look desperate, and he will never respect you.
How do know if it is true when a girl tells you that she has slept with your boyfriend?
Ask your boyfriend. If you don't trust his answer he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
Would I be the boyfriend of Alexandra?
Make a move to be her boyfriend trust me im a girl i would know.
How do you breakup with your cheating boyfriend and get rid of him?
Tell him straight up ! Girl, NEVER stay with a guy who cheats. If he does it once, he'll do it again.
What does it mean if a girl tells you things that she should be telling her boyfriend?
It mean's, she trust's you more than she trust's her boyfriend, or because she is shy around her boyfriend and she doesn't know how he'll react.
Can you trust your boyfriend to be around a girl he used to like with out you around for 2 months?
It depends. Do you trust your bf? If not, that's ok. If it was me, no matter how much I trusted my bf, I would never let him be around a girl he used to like with out you for 2 months. Good Luck!!!!
Should you believe your boyfriend or another girl?
It really depends on what kind of person you are and what kind of person the boyfriend and other girl is. If you really trust your boyfriend then you should believe him but, if you aren't so sure about him and you trust the other girl then listen to her. But, like I said, it depends on the types of persons and it also depends on how much you trust these two. Its really your own call.
You have cheated your girl but you love her but she is not going to trust you any more what should you do to realize her that you love her and you will not happen again?
YOU WILL HAVE TO START AT THE BOTTOM IF SHE PERMIT. YOU LOST TRUST AND LOVE FROM HER. YOUR A LOOSER TO YOUR GIRL ASK YOUR SELF - WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPEN IF SHE NEVER FOUND OUT.
Should you meet with the girl your boyfriend cheated on you with?
No. Your problem is with your boyfriend. There is a social contract in every relationship, and a romantic relationship has a clause on Trust and Fidelity. You have no contracts with anyone else besides your boyfriend. This girl isn't your friend, and neither is any other female stranger. They promised you nothing, and they owe you nothing. Your boyfriend on the other hand, by being in your relationship, promised fidelity and trust. And he, not the girl, broke this promise. It doesn't matter who the girl is. It doesn't matter what she did. If she did those same things with someone else, you wouldn't care. On the other hand, if your boyfriend did whatever it was he did with some other girl besides her, he'd still be breaking your trust. So, no. Your beef is not with the girl, it is with your boyfriend.
A girl said she loves you but she has a boyfriend what should i do?
If the girl has a boyfriend already,try not to get in the way. If she really does love you then she will break it off with her boyfriend. Don't try to rush her though as girls don't like that. Trust me, I am one.
What does it mean when a girl trusts you more than her boyfriend?
I think its the friendship that you have made and it means that she can trusts you anytime in her problems and secrets! But you know sometimes when she always trust you she is getting used to trust you and not her boyfriend!
What do you do when your boyfriend is best friends with another girl?
Trust him unless you have reasonable doubt about the innocence of their friendship.
