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How do you handle the next hurdle when your husband had an 8-month relationship with a younger co-worker and she thought she'd hit the jackpot?
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∙ 18y ago
I can see you were unable to complete your question, so I'll do the best I can with advice and then if you like, you can answer my post and we can discuss your problem further. First off, kick that husband of yours in the slats! He's the initial cause of all the pain he has created in your relationship. Some men 40+ go through an actual male menopause (it's no longer called the mid-life crisis) and they begin to feel old, need to know they are still attractive, so flirt and end up having an affair with usually a younger woman. Some men get over it, while others continue this practice. This can also apply to women who are getting older. I gather from your post (correct me if I'm wrong) that your husband makes fairly good money and you are probably wondering if this "young thing" is trying to go for the gold and that includes stealing your husband. Well, mistress' seldom come out the winner even if the husband and wife divorce. What the mistress doesn't get is the fact that once a man finds a taste of freedom he is not likely to settle into another long-term relationship, or, he really truly misses his wife and strives to get her back. The long and the short of it is the mistress' is the one that gets the kick in the fanny and well deserved. Both of you need to sit down and MAKE TIME to discuss your marriage problems. He doesn't know what your needs are and how you feel and vice-versa. Try to remain calm and talk about how each of you feels and not take the criticism to heart. It's important a man and wife express their feelings to each other because as we all know men and women simply don't think along the same lines. There is no point with threatening each other, fighting over materialistic things, but just simply get down to basics and try to save the marriage. Good luck Marcy
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You found out your husband female coworker friend was only 24 and he was hiding this friendship from you did this mean he was having an affair with her?
Not necessarily true, but possible. It could be that he was hiding the relationship from you because he thought you would be angry. Have an open discussion with your husband and express how you feel, but keep your cool at the same time. If it bothers you that he's hiding their friendship, let him know how it makes you feel. Ask him how he feels about their friendship and why he never brought her up before?
Why did a female coworker touch your butt?
Because she thought that you were just the sexiest thing on the face of the earth.
Why would wife leave you and kids for coworker get pregnant move in with him then decide she wants to come home and beg to come back?
A wife who engages in this type of behavior clearly knows that her actions are completely wrong. Instead of properly addressing the issues that have caused problems in her marriage, she takes the easy and cowardly way to avoid dealing with them. As a result, she has displayed a total lack of respect for her husband as well as dishonoring her vows in order to pursue her selfish desires. Most likely, she sought refuge from her marriage problems by talking to her coworker. She became emotionally attached to this guy and decided to have an affair with him. Since she enjoyed her time with her coworker more than being at home, she left thinking that her life would be much better. In an effort to "secure her new man", she deliberately ceased from using her current birth control method so that she could bear a child with him. Like alot of women, she thought that a child would coerce the coworker to commit to her, but she found out that her plan wasn't guaranteed. The coworker dumped her and now, she's seeking the support of her husband as her safety net. What she may or may not realize is that she has totally humiliated her husband and family. All that she cares about is herself. The husband needs to let her seek support from the coworker so that she could "woman up" and handle her responsibilities instead dumping her disasters on others.
Why does Elizabeth Proctor lie to Danforth about her Husband relationship with Abigail William?
Elizabeth lies to save her husbands name. your name was a big thing to 'let go' of or 'sell out'. and therefore, Elizabeth thought she was doing her husband a huge favour by 'saving' his name.
What is the full story of THE WIFE'S HOLIDAY?
"The Wife's Holiday" is a short story by Anton Chekhov about a married couple who go on vacation, and the wife realizes that her husband is not the person she thought he was. She starts to question their relationship and her life choices. In the end, she decides to leave her husband and start fresh.
Who adopts Poe and what type of relationship do they have?
Poe, in fact, was never legally 'adopted'. But, he was taken in by Frances Allan and her husband. Frances Allan loves and spoils him, but her husband strongly dislikes him.The Allans never formally adopted Edgar, but Fanny often thought of him as her own child. 10 years after that, Edgar moved because of the bad relationship with Jonh Allan.
If you hear a coworker telling a visitor wrong information how do you handle it?
If the coworker is your boss or somehow superior to you in rank, then do not correct them in front of the visitor. I myself have gotten in trouble for doing that myself and have learned my lesson. If it is a coworker that has the same authority that you do, then unassertively suggest the correct answer. For example say, "Joe, I believe that it's...." or "Are you sure? I thought you had to...." If the coworker is still adamant in his or her information, don't push it because it would be unprofessional to bicker and fight in front of a customer/visitor. Either wait for that person to walk away and discuss it and maybe you can chase them down if its that important, or discuss it with your superior if you think the coworker is being stubborn about issues like this.
Kelley has been working at her job for two years and thought she deserved a raise, especially when her coworker, who does the same job, got a raise. This illustrates?
relative deprivation :)
If your husband's brother's wife is called sister-in-law then why it is said that your husband's sister's husband is not related to you and why there is no term in English to define this relation?
Your husband's brother's wife is not your sister-in-law. She is not related to you, just as your husband's sister's husband is not related to you.The reason the English language does not have a term for your relationship to the spouse of your spouse's sibling goes back to the way speakers of the root languages of English lived and how they thought about family relationships. It is apparent that they did not feel a need to trace wide horizontal family relationships.
Was Albert Einstein really 9 when he started walking or is your husband pulling my leg you thought it was like 18 mths?
they changed my question its supposed to be is my husband pulling my leg i thought it was 18mths!
Why does the invitation her husband bring home displease madame loisel?
her husband thought madame loisel would be pleased besides her husband never goes out and it would be an occasion for him.
Husband told me he had a 6 month emotional affair with a coworker and he kissed her once but is there a way to tell if he slept with her and just told me as little as possible because it hurt me?
The fact your husband cared enough to tell you about his emotional affair even though he knew it would hurt you took some fortitude on his part and his guilt has compelled him to be honest which most men seldom are. Never mind if he slept with her or not, but relish in the thought he loved you enough to tell you the truth. Humans make mistakes and your husband made one. It will take time for you to trust him again, but in time you will. Remember, he didn't have to tell you.
