I agree it is very hard and I'm speaking from experience and my situation is a little different. Mines moved out and abandoned myself our 3 very small children. But he still wants to control what I do and what I say and claims that he still loves me, he's still in love with me and doesn't ever want us to get a divorce. I still love him but I don't know how to let go and move on with my life. It is very hard, but you will know when you are ready. You need to ask yourself why you are staying, and examine your reasons thoroughly. When you begin to realise that there is nothing keeping you in this relationship, you can begin to start moving on emotionally before moving on physically. Easier said than done, I know, I am in the same position myself.
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
People tend to say things in anger. Since your husband is abusive you should consider going to a Woman's Abuse House to find help and learn tools to cope. No one has the right to abuse the other. Your relationship is toxic and you are in control of your life and not your husband. To tell him you are going to kill him is a serious accusation and when you get to this point it's time for you to leave this abusive relationship.
You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
After receiving that first blow it's time to GO!
Abusive relationship is not good. It affects nearly all aspects of life.
It is good to talk about it so that you can move on. If you just hold it all inside then you never really let it go. Talk with someone that you really trust.
It is important to exit an abusive relationship carefully. Slavery is abusive.
call the district attornies officeor go tohttp://www.mincava.umn.edu/or call888-777-1248
get help ASAP
Because, nobody wants help to stay with somebody who abuses you.
try being in there shoes and let them know that your there for them and tell them that its hard to confess but you feel better and safer
if you are in a abusive relationship just don't stay with them say that you don't feel the spark in the love and that you want to move on.