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When you get out of an abusive relationship is it good to talk about your experience or move on with your life?

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2005-11-03 22:53:10
2005-11-03 22:53:10

It is good to talk about it so that you can move on. If you just hold it all inside then you never really let it go. Talk with someone that you really trust.

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