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This is a very common problem and there isn't a thing you can say about it. It's obvious you have marriage problems so you are going to have to be strong and sit down with your wife and tell her that you both need to go for marriage counseling. If she doesn't agree, then tell her that you're leaving. Because you have broken that trusted vow of honesty and loyalty you have few tools to use on your side of this problem. All the two of you are doing is hurting each other. Either try the marriage counselor or split-up, but don't waste your life or hers living in a worthless relationship. Good luck Marcy

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Q: How do you save your 13-year marriage if you love your wife and you have 3 kids and you had an affair 7 years ago but your wife is having an affair now?
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