Listen. What you need to do is tell your husband that you think you might be developing feelings for this man and that he needs to move out. Anything else WILL destroy you, your husband, your marriage, your friend, and his relationship with you and your husband. It WILL NOT end in a happy ever after, it will end with broken hearts, pain, misery and loneliness for you ALL. Neither will forgive you for ruining a happy home and friendship, trust me on this one because I've been there, done that and worn the BITCH t-shirt. This is a love triangle if I ever heard of one. You must steer clear of this. I think you are projecting what your husband doesnt do for you that this guy can. It is daring and interesting to think of the what if. When you live in the same house with another man, you wonder, which is totally natural but you must maintain your respect for yourself and that of your husband. I think you need to either get him out of the picture and see if you feel the same way, dont make a move until you know for sure that you like him in that way and be honest with your husband. If you cant have him move out for financial reasons you have to detach yourself from any further, emotional feelings of affection for this person, its not fair to your husband. Watch the movie "I think I love my wife" with chris rock, even though I didnt appreciate the references to white people, throught out the whole movie, the moral of the story is strong.
It is ok for the female to be friends with the husbands friend. But I think that talking to the friend without the husband present is wrong it seems a little weird.
Tell them that your marride and you love your husband and to stop messing around cause you dont like them that was
You'll need to tell your husband first.
Simply talk to your husband about it. If he doesn't agree with you I would talk to your husbands friend. And don't kick him out if you know he has no where to go. We don't need another home less guy! And if they agree with you try to help your husbands friend find a house.
You already know two wrongs don't make a right so the best thing to do is let your husband know about his affair and that his friend told you and is now interested in you. Be careful of gossip! Communication is the best skill anyone can have so sit down and calmly discuss this with your husband. It is also up to you to make it plain to your husband's so-called friend that you are not interested in him and stay clear of him. This is no friend of your husbands because he is hoping to have an affair with you behind your husband's back.
Actually, nothing. As long as your ex-husband doesn't have a problem with it.
It is better not to do much at all on the anniversary of a friend's husbands death. The only thing you could do is telephone your friend and not mention the anniversary of her husband's death and ask her if she would like to go for lunch; brunch or dinner as this may help to keep her mind off things and she will not feel so alone.
No, Husband is not just friends, But You Can treat husband as a friend.And That's Something You MUST treasure!
Considering this is a female friend it is fine for them to confide in your husband, but it is not fine that she invites him for a drink. If you are friends then she should be confiding in you or both you and your husband. You have the power to stop this and tell your friend and your husband the meetings stop!
Maybe. Depends on how observant they are and if he brags. ANSWER: That will be hard to predict. If your husband's friend knows you to, it will be dangerous for your husband to confide to his friend, let alone be seen by him. But there are some married man's friend who knows but not with much details. If this happens, your husband's friend will be avoiding him.
Either together in the back seat, or the wife in the front with the friend and the husband in the back.
it is very possible, your husband could also have feelings for him,but at the same time have feelings for you.A choice needs to be made by your husband.if he loves you enough he should tell his friend to go.