I was in a friend's wedding and his wife(now) lost her father to disease when she was young. She had a photo of her father placed near where they took their vows in the church. It was near some candles (including the unity candles). I never knew her father, but felt he was represented and included in this special landmark occasion. The residing minister made special note of her father and we all felt his presence. It was poignant and touching. I am sure you will find a personal way to have your father represented at your ceremony. I know my friend's father was. Good luck and congratulations.AnswerMy Grandmother was a very important person in my life and she had passed away about five years before I was married. I had a special song that we shared together played during the ceremony with a special announcement about who and what it was for. I think we said something about the fact that she couldn't be here today, but that with this song, she could still help us celebrate our special day. AnswerFirst of all let me offer you my congratulations!
I should mention that I read your question wrong, I thought it said � having something said about� that is why I have produced this long winded answer! So I don�t think my answer is much good, however I have included it anyway because I have just spent half an hour writing it! More fool me, I should read the question properly in the first place!I can�t give you a quick answer to your question; I think it is best that I tell you a true story first.
I went to the funeral of a cousin of mine recently, whom I had not seen for at least twenty years. I went because I understood that her father, my uncle would be in great pain, as I know I would be if I lost one of my daughters. I was not looking forward to the funeral; I did not know anyone there except my uncle and aunty.
I know this sounds corny, but it was the best funeral I have ever been to. Let me explain.
The vicar had everyone in the church laughing and crying at the same time. He started off by explaining that he was also the chaplain at the hospital where my cousin was. Sometimes when he walked through the ward, she would challenge him "what are you doing here" on one occasion she said to him "I want you to do my funeral service, because you're not very religious!"He went on to explain that sometimes he would meet a meet her when she was going outside for a breath of fresh air, he shook his head indicating that that wasn't true, and held his fingers up to demonstrate that she was actually going outside for cigarette.
I can't explain it, much better than this, but the vicar showed me my cousin, and after the funeral it was as if I knew my cousin, and I realized what a wonderful person had been lost. And also I realised I had missed the chance of a wonderful friendship my whole life by not keeping in contact with her.
To answer your question, I would suggest that you chose the person who is to give you away, the person who is the ceremonial substitute for your father, try and choose an older person who knew your father well, and someone who can relate nice stories about your father to your guests at the reception, someone who is good at and experienced at public speaking. Have several meetings with him, and other family members before the wedding, tell each other stories about your father, and pick out the best stories, the ones that make you the happiest, and can show the guests that did not know your father what a wonderful person he was, leaving them with the impression that they knew him, and wishing they had known him better.
Don�t forget, this person who is your ceremonial substitute for your father, is in a very difficult position, and will need to be very skillful and experienced to carry this off successfully. You may want to consider offering him the opportunity to take professional presentation training. If you have already chosen a brother or an uncle, or a stepfather for this position, then again you may wish to consider asking them to take professional training for making the speech.
In any event don�t forget, your wedding day is very special, and I am sure your father will be watching over you.AnswerSomething that I recommend is to do something subtle, such as have photographs of your parents (both sides - you could include grandparents too) on their wedding day at your cake or gift table.You could dedicate a reading or a poem to him in your service, or ask the priest to pray for his memory during the ceremony.
Also, I would suggest that you think about him before your wedding day, and help to think about the feelings you may feel at your wedding day because he isn't there. This will help you be prepared for any overcoming emotion on your wedding day and deal with adequetly.
Hope this helps
Barbara (for Every Detail www.everydetail.co.UK)AnswerI want to thank the above people for their suggestions. It really helped. I wanted a way to include my dad in my wedding, and these are some really great ideas. Thank you so much!!!
If you are a good friend and can't make the wedding you should give a little something. But if you weren't invited, this basically gives you no obligation to give. You could have a office gift pool, everyone throws in five bucks or something. Also, check out www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php it is a wedding gift calculator, might help in future. Later, CC
Why should you not go? Is something holding you back? If not, then go!
Anyone who is having a registry problem at a department store should contact the stores manager or sales associate to help them. It is important that their wedding guests can give them the gifts they want for their wedding.
Good ideas are something that's personal to you and your wedding. Also it's very popular to have a favor based on the theme of the wedding! If your theme is flowers how about having some flower seeds in a decorated box as favors for the women and something different for the males? Also remember to have a different gift for any children attending your wedding, they would be much happier with a coloring book or something more appropriate! You should aim to have your gift something your guests can keep and a way to remember your memorable day
There is no standard size, or certain size you should have for a wedding invitation. My fiance and I are sending out lollipops with a printed on wrapper for our wedding invitation, because we are having a 50's style wedding.
Getting married is an important step to make and having a wedding can be a joyous occasion. That is why you should consider getting professional wedding photography done. Hiring a photographer to take your wedding pictures is a wonderful idea because you can enjoy the day without having to worry about how the pictures are going to come out. You can choose your photographer based on their unique portfolio. This allows you to get an idea of how your wedding pictures are going to come out on the day that they are taken. Being able to cherish and remember your wedding is something that you'll always want.
Weddings have a number of superstitions surrounding them. Specifically, people believe that the husband should never see the bride prior to the wedding ceremony. Additionally, the bride should always wear "something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue" when she gets married.
It does not matter where the wedding is held you should give a wedding gift. Since the wedding is in the Caribbean then you can buy them something less expensive.
The Maid of Honor should wear something different than the Bride in ANY wedding (trust me!)
if you knew this friend from your childhood you should find something that was special to both of you when you was a child.
You don't have to but age-old tradition states that the bride should wear "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue".
Let her wear something that's decent but something you agree would look nice...
If you have been having headaches for 3 months, you should go see a doctor. It may be something serious such as a tumor or something as simple as a imbalance in the body.
The mother of the bride for one should never wear white or ivory something close to white. The brides mother should be wearing something that coordinates with the season.
According to the list of traditional wedding anniversary gifts, you should give something crystal. However, the "modern" wedding anniversary gift is a watch.
Well, no not really but it takes a little bit of pleasure and orgasm you have in your vagina when having sex or masterbating (fingering yourself, dildo etc.)
No your second wedding should not e the same as your first wedding. Since you have experienced what your first wedding feels like then your second wedding should be more calm, less hectic, and more enjoyable and soothing. The second wedding should not be as long as the first and there should not be that much intricate design but dont think of the second wedding as just a party with a gathering of people.
People from both sides should pay for the wedding
Wedding insurance is definitely a good idea. Having a wedding insurance policy makes sure that your big day will be successful, even if a catastrophe occurs (i.e. you fall ill or have a family emergency) that causes you to postpone the event to a later date.
Yes, it's something everyone should have.
If you are a girl then no. of course not "why should there be something wrong with that". instead that should be great because you can have something to think about. and it doesnt matter what gender you are.
Yes, the fiancee should see the wedding band before the wedding to make sure she likes it and that it fits.
Look back at there wedding day. What was something that stood out in the wedding the most and create a gift out of it. Or you can write a love poem for them and engrave on a plate or and other object.
Depends how much money you have. It also depends on how much you've already shelled out for a wedding. Something as simple as money for the honeymoon may be good enough.
It is proper etiquette to only invite people to the shower who will also be invited to the wedding. If the couple is having a private ceremony with only family, then only invite family to the shower. If they are eloping and not inviting anyone, it would be safest not to have a shower because those at the shower would be expecting a wedding invitation.