You will never know, you need to trust him and if youdo not then there is no point being with him....
Gosh no, how can she justify the pain that she gave to her husband if she still contact him. If this is what she is doing, for God sake just get a divorce so both can move on. Just like when the husband is the one that had the affair, if he keeps contact with his mistress what do you think the wife will feel? Either way husband or wife that has the affair needs to be honest, and never contact the affair partner..
There ca an intimacy after an affair if they still have feelings for each other.
Nothing. It is strange that your spouse still communicates with the person she had an affair with, but aslong as it is just words and not actions, it is still acceptable.
If he cares and you care.... what's keeping you from calling him?....
Put your hands togetherbow[still keeping your hands together]say hello in Indian[still keeping your hands together]
You would have to discuss that with her. We have no way of knowing. Since they are co-workers, a certain amount of contact might be inevitable.
Cheating can take many forms. There is a reason she still keeps contact with him. Is her keeping in contact with him considered cheating? That is up to you. Does she still have feelings? That is a question you need to ask her. It is very likely that she does still have feelings for him beyond a friend which is why she is still in contact with him.At this point you may need to have a sit down conversation with her and let her know how you feel about her keeping in contact with her ex. Do not confront her in a negative way as she will go on the defensive if you do.The goal is to let her know how you feel about her contact with her ex. Not accuse her of cheating.
You can't work on the issues in your marriage with your husband until he's a full partner in the marriage again. This is impossible unless he ends the affair completely--which he hasn't done. An affair doesn't truly end when the sex ends, it ends when the affair partners cease contact with eachother. Keeping in contact only feeds the emotional high both parties got from the affair. Unfortunately, this also sounds like gaslighting---your husband and the affair partner are claiming to be only friends, while there is still an emotional (and possibly sexual) relationship going on without your knowledge. Your husband isn't making a choice here; he's simply hoping to keep both his marriage and his relationship with the affair partner. You need to make the best choice for yourself at this time. Privately go to an attorney, look through your finances and have an honest talk with your husband. Demand, not ask, that he make a choice---either he becomes a full partner in the marriage by going to counseling with you and completely ending contact with the affair partner (even if it means changing jobs or moving), or he needs to leave the marital residence ASAP and expect a divorce.
to have an affair is to be married but still have a relationship [love/sex etc.] with another person.
Usually as long as it takes for one of the other party in a marriage, to start suspecting and discovering the affair, which generally leads to separation and divorce. The affair, then may continue but is no longer called an affair but a relationship or a concubinage. ANSWER: It depends if the spouse can keep his or her affair as long as he or she wanted it to go. But in reality there are some who still continued even though the affair is been discovered.
not if you are intersted in earning the trust back that you lost and if you are trying to work your MARRIAGE out, then dont even think about the other person Well, how is your marriage going to work if your still keeping a secret. That is no way to start over. Keeping in contact with a past relationship person is like saying to the one your working on that your still interested and it shows no respect for their feelings. Devote yourself to fixing your marriage and if you do everything that is humanly possible to fix it and it doesnt work, move on then, but how can you move on if your stuck in the past????????????????
Whether the affair is with someone who is straight, gay or bi makes no difference. It's still an affair and the law is the same.