The problem with jealousy is that, while you're seeking to hold your girlfriend closer, you're actually pushing her away. Could this be one of the reasons you fight so much? It's very important that you learn to trust her and let go of some of your insecurity and need for control. Otherwise, you will surely push her away and that guy at work may just be waiting for that to happen. Wise up, be mature and trust your girlfriend. If you don't, you could lose her after all. (And if you end up losing her after you trusted her, at least you won't end up looking like the bad guy.)
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that is so true. its like this: SHE'S A GROWN WOMAN. U GROWN TOO. u cant MAKE someone do anything jus like u cant MAKE someone be faithful to you. if they gonna cheat they gonna cheat regardless of how u beg scream or cry. if its in them it will eventually come out. but u have to give ppl chances u cant live ur life in fear or not trusting people cuz u'll get no where like that. stop tryin to make her not cheat by worryin urself to death. its just like tryin to raise a full grown person. its too late they already grown now... so if they cheat they'll be the azzhole not you. n then its up to you if u'll give them another chance to do it again or get the heck outta there. but u shouldn't worry about things u have no control over anyways. u have absolutely no control over someone cheating or not so why worry and make urself sick? over nothing. cuz if they do that to you they obviously don't deserve u anyway and it jus wasnt meant to be. u should feel good that maybe there's someone out there better but if u get wit someone new, don't push them away with a problem YOU'RE dealing with cuz its just not fair at all.
no you just care about her in !!!!1
Instead of trying to make your ex-girlfriend jealous, it's better to focus on healing and moving on from the relationship. Trying to make someone jealous is not a healthy or productive approach. Instead, focus on personal growth, self-care, and building new relationships.
First ask if you care that he has a new girlfriend. Second, realize that he isn't doing this to hurt, but is probably trying to keep you from possibly anger and jealousy. After you've thought about it, go ahead and ask him! But try to keep it more simple question, no an accusation.
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Depending on his age, he may be responding to jealousy on the part of the "old" girlfriend who he still prefers (and who disapproves of your involvement with him). Teenage boys are often emotionally confused and make poor choices in their relationships.
Jealousy could drive a person crazy & force them to think the worst , that could be bad when trying to start a relationship because jealousy leads to trust issues & what's a relationship without trust ?
Well if he is chatting with other women on line he is tryiing to either stab you in the back or either he would be trying to cheat on you and trying to get another girlfriend. Even though he might be in a relationship with you he most likely is trying to hurt you or just doesn't want you to know about it. ):
Just ask her. Try not to overreact or accuse her though just ask her if she is interested in someone else and if she is you may have to rethink your relationship.
You break up with your girlfriend and stop trying to be a cheater. Kay?
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No but I'm trying to get him to be my boyfriend!
you should trying talking it out with her and not with everyone on the internet you should try keeping this problem to your self