Ok, if we're talking about a legal injunction like a restraining order, then you have to understand how confused/angry/disappointed he might be right now.
That's the reason why he is not even calling you back.
Neither you or I know if this is the end of your marriage or not.
You have to use a mediator, somebody trustful who can reach your husband easily, give to that person a letter that he will hand to your husband, on the letter explain the reasons behind you putting an injunction on him, tell him how you are feeling and what you hope for, that you are sorry, do not blame him or tell him what you think he should do.
The mediator as well should be able to give a few sensible words of advise to your husband.
If this works, seek marital counselling, communicate in the most respectful way to your husband, if he gets angry, keep on being respectful and kind...don't give up yet.
No one is right, remember both of you made mistakes, but if he had been abusive, you should tell him how you want to save your marriage because you love him and propose to get help from a counsellor for both of you.
Ask the person in charge or the anger management class how your husband is doing. When he/she feels your husband is dealing with his anger well, go back home and see if your husband is ok. If he is not, and was only pretending, a divorce is truly the best option
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Both of you are abusive to each other. You need counseling. Family counseling and anger management counseling.
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There are two ways to look at it, depending on exactly what it was that you said. One is that he is making an excuse for wanting to end the marriage so that the blame is on you. Two is that what you said is something so hurtful that there is no going back. You would need to make a real apology, not blaming it on anger or any other reason, and that you truly regret it. You might also talk him into counseling so that you both understand the issue and then can decide. It remains his choice.
You should be supportive of your wife. As a husband, you should be slow to anger when it comes to your wife.
She actually did something that makes her one, or he is being hurtful & speaking out of anger.
I would assume calling a therapist would do the trick, or at least get to the base of the problem.
I'd recommend going to therapy, because your husband might just have anger problems, or he might have a condition like bipolarism. If this is the problem then medication can be prescribed.
No, he says things out of anger and is just really tired of the fighting. (my husband has said the same thing before) People will sometimes say things they don't mean during a heated debate or word fight between spouses. This is why there are counselors who are available to help mitigate and sort out the problems and hopefully give some solutions. <br><br>Nothing will pull down a marriage faster than internal fighting between the husband and wife ... get professional help - it's obvious that you are not able to find the solution amongst yourselves.