There are two ways to look at it, depending on exactly what it was that you said. One is that he is making an excuse for wanting to end the marriage so that the blame is on you. Two is that what you said is something so hurtful that there is no going back. You would need to make a real apology, not blaming it on anger or any other reason, and that you truly regret it. You might also talk him into counseling so that you both understand the issue and then can decide. It remains his choice.
If you feel unsafe or unsure about going home, it may be best to seek support from a trusted friend, family member, or a local domestic violence hotline before making a decision. Your safety and well-being are the most important considerations in this situation. A professional can help you navigate the next steps and provide information about resources available to you.
Hilary Farr is no longer married. She went a horrible, horrible divorce and was experiencing emotions of bitterness, anger and resentment towards her previous husband and started the show "Love It or List It" to help take her mind off the negative feelings from her ex husband.
Hilary Farr is no longer married. She went a horrible, horrible divorce and was experiencing emotions of bitterness, anger and resentment towards her previous husband and started the show "Love It or List It" to help take her mind off the negative feelings from her ex husband.
Under ancient law, this was the requirement to secure a divorce; if this is sufficient to constitute a divorce in your jurisdiction (country) I can't say. Under most Judaic religions you are divorced in the eyes of the religion; Triple Talaq.
Both of you are abusive to each other. You need counseling. Family counseling and anger management counseling.
HUSBAND -------- Hurting, Unpredictable, Suspecting, Blaming, Anger, Nasty, Disappointing..
His own guards killed him out of anger.
She killed herself out of grief and anger.
Divorce is difficult if only one of the spouses wants the divorce and it's a trauma and much like grieving when you lost a loved one to death. It is a death of a once happy marriage. There are different stages of grieving you will go through: self blame; blaming the spouse who wanted the divorce; feeling deserted and afraid; lack of confidence in yourself; perhaps guilt; blaming yourself for not making the marriage better (when it may not be your fault at all) and finally anger. It is when you get to a stage of anger that you will be fueled into getting on with your life. Get out with friends and get back into the social scene and start dating again. There are plenty of other people out there that you can meet and perhaps that special person will come into your life sooner than you think.
You need to all sit down together and discuss what you are going to do about it. You can't fix what you don't aknowledge, and you may even consider marriage counseling if you want to continue the marriage. You may want to file for a divorce, but do not jump to any conclusions. You need to get everything in order and think about trying to fix the relationship. If you are ready to file for a divorce, and don't just do it out of anger, you should probably contact an attornety to get help filing and in court. This is the easiest way, or you can see the Related Links section below to see the best steps for filing for divorce.
Depressed, Anger, Guilt, Sadness, Hurt, Loneliness
One Week to Save Your Marriage - 2006 Anger Mis-Management 1-3 was released on: USA: 7 August 2006