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If a man calls a woman fat or cusses on her an average of once every five years IS he is an Abuser considering an Abuse is deemed to be repeative and controlling?
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∙ 16y ago
Answer I wouldn't say it's abuse if it seems to happen every 5 years or so, it's more like he was mad and didn't quite know how to insult you so he called you fat. That's not abuse. Abuse is when someone strikes you or plays head games with you.
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If you unintentionally make your spouse afraid one time during an argument Should you be labelled an abuser considering it was not intended and an Abuser knowingly repeats his Abusive ways?
Well if its UNintended, then no it doesn't make you a abuser. The abuser continues his abusive ways even after it's been brought up to him or her. Just be sure to talk to your spouse about this problem. Let them know that you are sorry for what you did and you did not mean to do it.
What is the difference between a controlling partner and a verbally or emotionally abusive partner?
Abuse, whether it's verbal or physical, is all about controlling the partner. A controlling partner is an abusive partner. They may control various parts of the victims's life: *the victim's schedule, and the need to "check in" or "report" to the abuser at various times * the victim's attempts to express her disatisfaction. The abuser will attempt to control the situation by comments, "I'm not talking about this," "That's not what you said/did/felt about it," ignoring the victim, sulking, pouting, physical threats, throwing objects, etc. * the victim's feelings of responsibility. The abuser will say at some points,"You make me feel good," and at others,"You make me feel bad/hate you/want to hurt you/treat you like this." The abuser makes the person feel responsible for all his behavior. * who the victim can talk to: her friends, her family, co-workers, total strangers. The abuser tries to control what the victims says to those people as well. *the victim's finances and independence--the abuser will withhold money from the victim, give the victim an allowance, or not allow a victim to seek employment so she can have her own money. *Self esteem. Through criticisms and belittling, the abuser can diminish and control the victims's confidence in her skills, her intelligence, her body image. "You're not smart/pretty enough," "You think you're actually going to be able to do that?" "You should be glad someone like me wanted to date you,". If you're with someone who behaves in a controlling manner, the best thing you can do is end the relationship, no matter how difficult it seems.
Was David Pelzer a child abuser?
No he is not a child abuser.
Who is most likely to be the victim of a narcissistic abuser?
AnswerSadly enough, the most likely victim would be the one who has been abused before. Someone who the abuser deems to be vulnerable, and easy to manipulate. Often, it is the women/girl who is longing for the father figure. The abuser takes advantage of the opportunity to fill in this role, through applying rigid rules and controlling her every move. Despite their intimate relationship, she may continue to see him as a father, and use this to excuse his behavior.
When was Love Your Abuser created?
Love Your Abuser was created on 2007-01-30.
How What if your ex husband abuser get remarried and look not abuser to new wife?
Give him time. He will.
When was Love Your Abuser Remixed created?
Love Your Abuser Remixed was created on 2008-09-23.
What are the causes of physical abuses?
One of the causes of physical abuse is that the abuser was also physically abused at some point in their childhood. Stress, alcohol abuse, jealousy, low self-esteem, and controlling behavior are all causes of physical abuse also.
What are the evils of the computer?
The computer in and of itself is not evil, it is an inanimate object. The user is the abuser and it is the abuser who causes the evil.
What actors and actresses appeared in Abuser - 2009?
The cast of Abuser - 2009 includes: Sergio Montoya Gino Montoya
Will my boyfriend be an abuser if he yells at his mom?
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
What resources does a victim have who is considering leaving her abuser?
Look up 'Womens' Rescue' in Yellow Pages, and CALL THEM, they will help you both physically and emotionally. Dial 211, the National Help Hotline. They will be able to refer you to an organization in your area that will be able to help.
