If you have been separated from a girl for three years and currently live in different states but still make love whenever you visit how can she love the person she is with but still see you?

woman is not using at all to the contrary woman has always treated me good.mostly my fault for break-up.still my best friend please explain how I am being used when the benefit is all mine. I did not understand your question all the way. But you are being used by her.