If you love your husband more than he loves you how can you win more of his affection?

Answer 1

Affection and love are two different things. If your husband does not show a lot of affection, it does not necessarily mean he does not love you as much. Try talking with him about affection to see his responses. My opinion love isn't something that you win or command to do or desire when you want to. Either he loves you or he doesn't. Some people aren't good at expressing their feelings and emotions. I always say "actions speak louder than words".

Answer 2

There is nothing you can do to make another person love you more. Either they will or they won't. Consider this, put yourself in that question in the place of your husband. What could he do to make you love him more? Nothing.

If you came up with anything to answer that question, it is important that you reflect seriously on what the relationship you have is. Love is not purchased. Love is not facilitated. Love is or is not.

Scientists compare the biochemical reaction of love in humans to consuming chocolate. The endorphin release, the reaction of the body to the experience of love, but try as they might, no researcher can put his finger on what love is, only what it does.

Accept that portion of love another gives. Experience it for what it is. Do not try to make something of it that it is not. Don't pin to it some ideal created by society or the media. Don't let Oprah tell you what it is. Make up your own mind.