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It quite natural to feel the way you do and you are relieved and why would you feel jealous? She can have him! He was abusive and controlling and made life miserable for you. If he was abusive with you, then he'll be abusive to her eventually. You may feel strange right now, but all it is, is the feeling of freedom and getting your independence back again. Just keep moving!

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Q: Is it normal if you were deeply in love with your abusive husband but now that you are separated and he has a new girlfriend you feel no jealousy and feel almost relieved?
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