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You really need to elaborate. What secrets are you meaning? I'm assuming it's something important to your life, not that you shoplifted candy from a store when you were 12. Some people think true love means not keeping secrets. But some secrets are not worth knowing. Does this secret pertain to your current relationship, or is a rather important part of your background (drug abuse, a previous marriage, a child?) It's up to you whether or not you should tell them. If there is a good chance they will find out, it's best to be honest right now. Finding out later will wreak havoc on your partner's trust in you. If it is a secret of your past that is not harmful to your current relationship, I would not divulge. If it's an affair you had during your current relationship, it's up to you to decide whether to tell. Stay quiet and they may never know, or it may come back to haunt you. There are no certainties. Yes, it is very wise. It is best to get everything out in the open before tying the knot. Be truthful and honest. Take it from someone who's been around the block a few times. SOME THINGS are meant to be taken to the grave. Unless it is a sexually transmitted desease he or she can get, otherwise, if it doesn't effect you both here and now and and it has nothing to do with you at this point in your life, why would you. If something a million years ago comes up and he or she doesn't like it, then they didn't love you and or they don't understand the concept of love. You can't help their immaturity. It's not your fault. Don't beat yourself up because you made a mistake or made a bad choice years back. Blah Blah Blah. For Gods sake keep your mouth shut unless every time you fight you want your "secrets" thrown in your face. Anything you say will be used against you time and time again and they will try to make you feel less of yourself for any not so lady like actions in your past. Then you need to take in to thought you might get divorced then all your secrets will be public knowledge. Do not ever give anyone anything to hold over you cause most of them will. Is it wise to tell secrets before marrying a person? Absolutely!! Tell him/her everything. It is wrong to withhold information from someone you are marrying, ceratinly you wouldn't tell everyone everything but as far as someone you are marrying is different. What are grounds for withholding vital information? Gee if you suddenly say your gay or something like that then that will ruin everything won't it?? It all depends on whther you want to tell them, don't just tell them for the sake of it. There is also a distinction between facts and opinions - opinions are purely opinions and should not be a basis of an argument or a "secret". For example you might not like your mother in law because of this and this, etc. That is a personal opinion. === === == Yes. Sound relationships are built on trust, and trust presupposes honesty. If you have something that is relevant to your future partner, tell him or her. If you hide things of importance before you marry there will be an element of dishonesty in the relationship from the outset. Don't marry with a 'guilty secret'. It's a recipe for trouble later. There is no pat answer I know of couples that have "lived together" for many years without divulging secrets. Don't you think that divulging secrets depends on the nature of those secrets? If you have been previously married you need to talk about it. If you have children from that marriage your future spouse needs to know about it. If you have a sexual desease or use drugs, better tell your future spouse. But if you're a slob, eat in between meals or are hung up on neatness, these are things that need to be adjusted once you're married. SECRETS: Some things are better left unsaid, ESPECIALLY when you have had more of a "history" than you mate has. Some tend to be judgemental and insecure.
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How can you tell when someone is marrying the wrong person?
Hi, You can tell you are marrying the wrong person if ; -you are embarrassed to be seen with them -no desire for closeness with that person -you cannot keep your eyes or mind off of other men(or woman) -Religious views are not the same
What is a trustworthy person?
A trustworthy person is someone who you believe will tell the truth and keep your secrets.
How do you know if someone is good at keeping secrets?
You can only tell if a person is good at keeping secrets from experience. If you have a BIG secret then don't tell it to someone who as a tendency to tell people. If you don't know if someone has loose lips then tell them a small secret and see if they tell anyone else.
How do you tell your wife you want children?
You should have told her BEFORE marrying her! Hopefully, it's not too late. You need to be honest with her.
Why does Juliet tell the nurse that her advice about marrying Paris comforted her?
She no longer trusts the nurse with her secrets. She tells the nurse that her advice has been comforting but this is a lie, and Juliet is just trying to get rid of the nurse at this point.
Why does Juliet tell the Nurse that her advice about marrying Paris has comforted her?
She no longer trusts the nurse with her secrets. She tells the nurse that her advice has been comforting but this is a lie, and Juliet is just trying to get rid of the nurse at this point.
What to do when someone is going to tell?
Talk to the person before they tell. Tell on yourself before they tell. Or let them tell and deal with it..
How do you tell your boyfriend that you want his baby?
By marrying him.
Is it Ok to tell secrets before marrying a person?
Obviously, from a biblical standpoint there is the advisement against "false witness" often seen as a prohibition against lying. So, if you go from this statement, it is wrong to hide something from someone if they ask you about it or ask you for the truth.Do Christians--both the good and the bad--lie to their future spouses? I'd say yes on both counts. Is it wrong? It depends on the reason. Is the person lying to save themselves from censure or punishment, or are they refraining in order to spare someone's feelings? To put a classic example, if a girl you like asks if she has gained weight, and you think she has, do you "unburden" yourself and tell her this? Is it worth hurting her feelings? Or do you lie and say she looks as slim as ever?It's wrong to hide a "secret" that has had a large impact or is current in your present life (child, drug problems, affairs, convictions, etc.) I think that hiding such things as mental illnes, severe family troubles or bad finances could cause problems in the future. And when people have admitted such problems to someone who cares for them, they often feel better because the other person supports them. But not admitting to little secrets--childhood antics, bed wetting, a humiliating nickname-- is not sinful.Answer"Is it Ok to tell secrets before marrying a person?" Absolutely! Tell him/her everything. It is wrong to hide you and your past from someone you are marrying and grounds for them to leave you afterwards.AnswerIt is not only OK, I believe it is necessary if you are to have any sort of an honest relationship. I had an affair during my first marriage. It is not what ended the marriage, but it was certainly a contributing factor. I want my future husband to know everything because surely it would come out one day anyhow. If he is going to leave me, I want him to leave me before we get married, not after. And if he chooses to stay with me, knowing the worst thing I've ever done, I will thank God for this man and do everything I can to ensure we are happy for the rest of our lives. Well that is the very best thing you can do, tell all your secrets before the marriage that is the sign of honesty and faithfulness to a [partner.
Does a person with Asperger's Syndrome need to tell his or her future spouse before marrying?
Absolutely! Marriage is based on trust, and keeping secrets betrays that trust! Also, not all people are able to deal with people with learning disabilities, so the more they learn, the better. Clarification: Asperger's Syndrome (AS) is a developmental disorder, more specifically a pervasive developmental disorder. Asperger's Syndrome is not a learning disability. A person with AS can also have learning disabilities. Learning disabilities include dyslexia, dysgraphia, dyscaclulia, and dysnomia.
Where in the bible does it tell of boaz marrying?
The book of Ruth.
Do narcissists keep secrets?
Answer Everyone in life keeps secrets, don't let anyone ever tell you that they don't keep secrets sick people included. Narcissists are sick people, they need help and they are known to be liars as well so watch your step around this person and always remember, what they tell you may not be the exact truth.
