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Is it worth it to hold a relationship together after spouse infidelity?
Mgodat
There are underlying issues that brought about the infidelity. Some issues can be resolved, However if the issues went unspoken and not dealt with BEFORE the decision to cheat, then it only makes it impossible to reconcile. I have been there done that and my answer is NO, HELL NO The damned thing is over. Cheating is a cataclysmic breech of TRUST. Cheating just does not happen by accident it was a decision to end the relationship.
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∙ 12y ago
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∙ 12y ago- If your spouse has only had one affair then it is worth talking things out because 'to err is human' and perhaps seeing a marriage counselor will help. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage and it takes hard work to keep a marriage going. However, if the spouse has had more than one affair it is time to sign divorce papers as you will never be able to trust them again.
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Can you deal with infidelity in your relationship?
If it is constant infidelity and nothing in the relationship has been resolved then the person who is not cheating should not put up with it and if they stay under those conditions then they are enabling their mate's behavior. It's energy draining and no cheater is worth losing that energy or ruining one's life.
What are the effects of infidelity on the lives of the majors characters in The girl in their summer dresses?
In "The Girl in the Summer Dresses" by Irwin Shaw, the effects of infidelity on the major characters are primarily emotional and psychological. Michael's infidelity causes Frances to question their marriage and her self-worth, leading to feelings of betrayal and insecurity. It also causes Michael to confront his own feelings of guilt and remorse, impacting his sense of integrity and commitment. Overall, infidelity disrupts the characters' sense of trust, intimacy, and connection in their relationship.
Is it ethical to date while separated?
This depends entirely upon you. Would you feel okay doing this? Where are your feelings towards your spouse? Would this lead to a divorce? How would your spouse react to this? Is the relationship worth saving? Are you prepared to get into a new relationship with someone else? I am not saying you shouldn't date someone else. Just take your time with this and think it over.
Is an emotionally abusive relationship worth enduring for the sake of keeping a family together and financially stable?
No, it's not worth it, you should try fixing the relationship somehow. Maybe a marriage counselor or something can help. But you are the one that has to decide what to do, no one can decide for you
How do you get what you want in your relationship without threatening to break up?
You need to tell your spouse that if they do not make some compromises with you that you will break up. I'm sorry but that's what your going to have to do, and if they don't make any compromises for you then they were obviously not worth your time.
How much do Dylan and Cole Spouse make?
Nobody really knows. People say they are worth 22 million together, and make a few grand per episode. They wouldn't really give out this information.
Relationship with narcissist?
Definitely not worth it.
Is this relationship worth investing in?
Yes
Is it worth going to a marriage seminar to save your marriage?
Only if you value your spouse and your marriage.
What is the relationship between cost and value?
Sacrifice and Worth. If it's worth, you will sacrifice. If its sacrifice, it is worth.
If your in a long term relationship and you and your boyfriend have cheated on each other more than once is the relationship worth keeping?
If you have both cheated on each other then you don't truly love each other.relationships are meant to find you happiness, if you love someone and you are together its a relationship, if you are together but don't love each other its a false relationship.Whats the point if you are not truly happy? You need to go your separate ways that would be the best thing.After all whats a relationship without love????????
How can you approach an act of infidelity by you or your partner in such a way that it actually contributes something positive to your relationship?
* Communication in a relationship is a far greater tool than just sex. Anyone can have a sexual relationship, but it takes time and patience to communicate in a trustworthy fashion. If in love, both partners should feel free to express their feelings about anything. Breaking the bond of trust is difficult and hurtful to the other mate and it will take time for wounds to heal because more people feel if one cheats once they will again (not always true.) There is no brochure of instruction for marriage and humans make mistakes so both of you should know there is no such thing as perfection in humans. Hopefully people learn from their mistakes and don't repeat the same one twice. It would be wise for the two individuals to have a long talk about why infidelity even happened and then if both feel the relationship is worth saving they should seek counselling to learn the tools so their relationship becomes stronger.
