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Most definetely!! If you love your husband, you should not keep something as important as this from him. If you don't tell him now, it is only a matter or time, days, weeks, years, until he does find out. And when he does, your relationship will most likely be over, if he doesn't hear it from you. I think before you go blundering into this one you should consult a counselor about this. This is an extremely tricky problem and this could ruin your relationship. Many problems can arise from this if you don't handle it well.

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Q: Should you tell your husband that he is not the father of your child?
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