Should you tell your mother if you are cheating on your spouse?

== if you feel it's the right thing to do, then go ahead. Whatever you decide should be totally up to you, but cheating on your spouse is not right. Consider how might they feel if you were to tell them. Would you want someone to cheat on you? I didn't think so. == No, never tell on your self. It may not be right to cheat but you still don't want to get caught. Besides, I made the very same mistake and even though my mom and I are super close she still told other family members that I didn't want to know. I know it is lonely but it's your own mess to deal with. == No - your spouse should be the one you tell and talk to this about.