What can a 15-year-old do if his self-esteem is being affected because he doesn't have a game console or cell phone or iPod or a camera?

Answer 1

Grow up and recognize that "stuff" doesn't define who you are. If "stuff" is so important to you, why not study hard in school, get good enough grades to be an Honors student, get a scholarship to college and make a TON of money so you can have all of the "stuff" that you obviously think is so important. * Not having all the "cool" (do they still use that word?) things that your peers have is difficult especially when they play such an important part in teenage society. Perhaps you could earn some money by doing errands for neighbors, mowing lawns or even babysitting. Then you could save your money and buy some of the things you are longing for and have the extra benefit of being proud of your resourcefulness, good work ethic and personal responsibility, all of which are a big part of "growing up". NOOOOO of course not, you are (i bet) a wonderful person even tho you dont have all the stuff that is in!!! You should not feel that not having certain things while affect your self esteem!! Look at me for example!! lol I am close to your age and i did not get a cell phone till my junior year!! I was fine with it!! Maybe find some ways to earn some extra buck, there are so many awesome jobs out there!!!