What do you do if you are the girl a boy is cheating on his girlfriend with?

Answer 1

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Ask your boyfriend first why he cheated on you, there might be multiple reasons. If you love your boyfriend, give him another chance, consider talking to him about the future(kids, marriage, friends, live, holidays etc.) and the most important one of all trust, tell your boyfriend to promise you not to break your heart and cheat because you and I both know it hurts.

If your boyfriend cheated you more than once I'm afraid to say you and your boyfriend should be over, you deserve better than dating a player(move on), but if he stops cheating and you guys build up trust(which is the most important thing of a relationship) then give him another chance, hopefully you make the right decision but of course it's your decision not mine, hope it helps.
first of all dump his sorry butt he doesn't deserve you, it's low and don't listen to anyone if they say for him to apologize he'll do it again, and over. and girl out there chat to mme my email:shakiraone@Yahoo.com

Answer 2

ok you never want to see or hear that your boyfriend is cheating on you. So heres what to do.

you should break up with him unless your a looney toon for planet mars.

then if he says hes not then prove it some how that he did cheat on you.

then find out who he was with and say hes your boyfriend he would be so imbaressed he should crawl in ahole and move to Africa.

thats the shityest answer ever! >:( ok, heres what u do...

1.ask him if he is miserable. dont tell him way u asked the qustion though...

2.if u know who hes with then dump him and say "im dumping u soo u can now go and be with (name), but we can still be friends."

3. if he really likes u, he wont dump u and will find a way to make it up. kk well i think that everyone is human, and evryone makes mistakes, but it just depends on how you handle it.Come down hard - if it was a one night stand then maybe move on from it - but just make it clear, next time your gone. - I get drunk.. i don't wake up with someone else?If its an on-going cheat .. then its different - all the times they must have been lieing about where they were and who with? - Beleive me, if they can lie about it so easily then they can do a lot lot worse - and most probably have/will.You need to weigh up your partner though - are they decent? do they treat you well? - if the ansers no.. and they've cheated - then what the hell are you doing with them anyway.every1 has the right to go absolutly mental at them but make it good. dont drag it out - your just making yourself look like a nob. After you've gauged their eyes a few times and kidnapped their dog for a week - Take the high road, move on, don't talk to them - you have better things to worrie about (or at least make it seem like you have)Think about what you want though, if your wern't happy anyway, this isnt the first time - or you have on-going issues - then finnish it. A bad relationship is bad for your soul. But if you were happy, and this is a blip - then do whats right for you.Just once you've made your decision on how your going to play it, stick with it - you'll never move on otherwise.

i was in real love with a guy..we met 3 years ago and he cheated on his girlfriend with me ..then they broke up ,they were living Another Country but he came back .then we started to date but this time he cheated on me with his ex ! I was feelin like he was really in love with me .but now i lost my self-confidence,my respect.my everythnig...But i made a big big mistake cause when i learn that he cheated on me i couldnt break up with him for 2 days ,i dont know why i just could not do it.but After this he saw that im really in love with him and he was so cool and he wanted to break up with me ,i mean he tried to make me say 'i want to break up' ..he wants to make some efforts to get back me..but now i dont really want to see his face or hear his voice..Im feeling like im in depression right now.. And we bought a dog and the dog is with me now,he is probably gonna call me for that too....and i lastly told him that i want to go on without you for a while i want to fix my life first then maybe we could be together again..and he told me that "baby im here im not going anywhere.." .............i want to see him crying! what should i do?

Probably not what you want to hear - but don't try and make him cry. I was in a bad relationship for 2 years, got cheated on ect and never did anything about it apart from get incredibly bitchy and petty - which is fun at first but it wears on you, got into a lot of trouble as well lol. Its good that you finnished it though. If you dont want anything else from him then just make sure he knows that, and after he knows that just dont speak to him at all - if your serious about getting over him i mean.From what you've said, it looks as if he's never really been faithful to anyone - which first of all indicates that either hes imature or just hasnt made his mind up what he wants - not to the same extent you have, so i personaly wouldn't get too tied up in him or put all the eggs in one baset.Give the dog back (unless you really want it) its just extra responsibility and hassle for you - a hassle which he deserves - so i wouldnt worrie too much, keep yourself occupied with friends etc - and like you said - get back to being you. Its really hard to judge what to do whenever something like this happens but again its what you feel happy with. Nobody can really tell you what to do, and i'm not really qualified to either - so it's up to you.

If you know who he went out with, try to casually mention her when you are talking to him. If he looks a little freaked, well, go ahead and mention him cheating. If he lies and says he never cheated say, "How come you looked so nervous when i mentioned _ _ a couple minutes ago?

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Answer 3

That depends on you and what you want. If you want to forgive it may be trying but counselling for both of you may be a possibility. If you feel you cannot forgive it would be in your best interest to end the relationship as soon as possible. Unfortunately there is the old saying once a cheater always a cheater and it is often true.

Answer 4

If you know that he truly cheated on you, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. You shouldn't cheat on him to get revenge because two wrongs never make a right and revenge never turns out to be good. If he is not sorry or continues to cheat on you, you should find someone else who is more supportive and faithful. :)

When you find out your boyfriend is cheating on you you go to him and you let him know you don't do second best and you won't take his BS and if you are a good girlfriend he will regret losing you so don't worry he will be back but its your decision whether you want to take him back. Me personally I'm tired of giving second chances but if you love him and you want to work it out so be it BUT if he cheats on you 1 time he WILL cheat again and again.

Answer 5

I would get out of that relationship because you could end up getting hurt pysically or mentally. But if you really love him, tell him that and if he really loves you he will break it off with that girl and be a one woman guy. == ==

Answer 6

What would you do if you found out your boyfriend cheated on you with another girl?

Why is there any difference? Why should the reactions (or actions) be different from any other person cheating on another just because it's a guy cheating on his "girl" with another guy?

No matter who he cheated with, another girl, a guy, it's still cheating and should be treated the same. The next decision is up to you.

Answer 7

you dont stay with them. you find out the details of what has been happening and confront them about it. if they are honest with you, you can consider staying with them, but i wouldnt, as i have been there and done that, and they just ended up cheating again. its like the saying "once a cheat, always a cheat."

Answer 8

If it upsets you, break up with him. If you're okay with it, then go get yours.

If your partner has other partners, it's important that you get tested for STIs, even if you have no symptoms. You also should use condoms if you are having sexual contact -- oral, anal, or vaginal sex.

Answer 9

You need to comfront him about it and tell him your feelings. Good Luck!