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2010-10-24 01:24:02
2010-10-24 01:24:02

The secret to true love as opposed to sexual love is to under stand that it is unconditional, if you love some one or something you must love it warts and all, otherwise it's conditional love. A dog can spend its life being mistreated and still welcome its master. That is true love.

Before we can discuss the secret to true love, you must understand that true love is a gift that has to be valued and nourished. It's not something that you find one day like a beautiful seashell on a beach and put it up somewhere to be admired. True love is a part of life that has a life of its own. Value and nourish it, and it will grow and become deeper and more valuable. Find it, give it no value and forget to nourish it, and it will die. Simple as that.

The first secret to true love is knowing when you have found the love of your life, your other half, the one who is more important to you than even yourself, the one your entire being tells you is the one for you. That may happen one day when you look across a room and meet the eyes of her or him, your eyes lock and your heart jumps, and the eyes you are looking into tell you that the same is happening on the other side of that gaze. It could also happen when you are out with someone that you have dated casually for months, but never really felt much of anything for. Suddenly, one night, your heart could leap as your eyes meet or your lips touch. Knowing you have found true love might be just a quiet knowing that the person is the one for you. It happens differently for different people.

After meeting your true love, the secret to keeping the love alive is to unselfishly put the other person before yourself and communicate with that person in a positive and open manner. Many great relationships have lost their pizazz due to mistakes of one or both becoming selfish and not communicating with the other. Even those who have found their true loves have lost them because of the hurt and disappointment caused when the love of your life's actions and words say "you don't matter," "I'm for me first," and similar things.

When two people find true love and each puts the others hopes, dreams, desires, and feelings above their own and communicates in such a way as to build the other up and share their innermost thoughts, beautiful things happen! The true love that was found grows into something more beautiful than a rose, deeper than the deepest ocean, and stronger than anything imaginable. Anything less than being unselfish, putting the other before yourself, and great communication and it's tough for even true love to survive.

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You must know how to distinguish between love and infatuation. The KEY to true Love and Romance are not like recipes that you can use for that perfect relationship. That Key is unique to every couple and relates to their social cultures and values. Almost every human relationship has its ups and downs. When people can focus on the important and valuable stuff that makes it all worthwhile, rather than curse the stuff that causes pain then they are on the way to finding true Love .

You must not get caught up with the superficial physical characteristics that you would like in your mate. You should preferably focus your attention on emotional qualities like compassion, respect, cooperation and dependability that you would want your mate to demonstrate.

Finding true love starts with your ability to find it first within yourself. You must be happy and contented with who you are. When you are able to create positive energy around you it will work like a sweet flower attracting the honeybees. You will be able to connect with the right person.

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2020-06-30 06:10:10
2020-06-30 06:10:10

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sofianoviello
2020-06-29 16:09:35
2020-06-29 16:09:35

If you find your true love, it is magical and it feels just like heaven. Nothing is better then it.

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Hataish Kumar
2020-06-29 07:17:26
2020-06-29 07:17:26

Secret of true love is to respect each other in every situation . care each other no matter what happens. these all things comes with time and maturity of mind.

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DR Sam
2019-12-25 08:39:04
2019-12-25 08:39:04
This question is so essential, and tha's why I will try as much as possible to speak from my heart. The words that come from the brain go to the mind, and it's subject to forgetfulness. Also, the words from the heart go to the heart and stay there. I want to start with my story: I started studying to become a doctor at the age of 19, and before that, I never had any interest in having a relationship with a girl. I never believed in love. For me, it was just all hormones in our body, making us lust after someone, and after some time, we start looking for the next person. Well, I believed that until my 2nd year at the university when I met a girl (Of course it all starts with a girl). Although I know I had feelings for this girl, I tried so hard for us to be friends. I knew she wanted me to ask her out, but I never wanted that. Until a friend of mine asked her out, and I became jealous. Each time she wasn't in her room in the hostel, I always knew where she was, and of course, the picture of what they might be doing ran through my head all night. I thought that after some time, it would fade away, but no, it became worse. I started to miss her because I was now seeing less and less of her. Then one day, I realized this guy was mistreating her. I didn't know why, but I became angry. One day, I decided to call her and ask her what was going on because she didn't seem happy. She told me the guy actually was mean to her and even pushed her. Okay, this was when I realized my feelings for this girl had grown. I began to tell her how I felt about her. I didn't want her to go back to that guy. For the first time, I thought I was in love. Well, I was wrong (I'll explain later on, keep reading). To my surprise, she told me she felt the same for me too. But she became angry why I didn't ask her to be my girlfriend. Well, to cut the long drama short, she broke up with that guy that same day, and I also kissed her for the first time on the same day. We started dating. Of course, we had physical relationships (If you know what I mean). But this is the point: After two years into our relationship, I noticed she wasn't that attractive anymore. I have gotten used to her, and if I will be honest, I was now attracted to some other girl. One night I asked myself, why am I doing this? Wasn't this the same girl I was in love with two years ago? What changed? I didn't want to break her heart (at least I still cared that much), and sometimes I sought a better way to tell her I'm no longer interested without her being hurt, but nothing. So, guess what? I went to church one day (I've been a Christian but clear was a hypocrite) because I wanted to know what I can do not to break her heart. After some time dedicated to studying The Bible, specifically, the life of Jesus Christ, I finally got it. I never loved her. I loved myself. I was with her because of how she made me feel. Every time I said "I love you" to her, what I meant was "I need you" to make me feel good. I realized we humans are self-centered, self-seeking, and self - preserving. We only think of ourselves. Jesus said, "there is no greater love than this than for a man to give his life for his friends. And Jesus gave His life because of love. I finally understood what true love is. It's all about giving. The only way I could love this girl was If I genuinely receive God's love and stop demanding love from her. It's the reason we put so much pressure on girls to do something to impress us. I realized if only I think about how she feels and how I can make her life better, everything will be fine. The next day when I saw her, it was so crazy. For the first time, I looked at her and thought, "what about what she wants?" She deserved to be loved and made to know she's worth everything. I realized how selfish I had been to her, and I didn't care anymore about me, but I cared about her for the first time. I told her, "I love you" for the first time, and I meant it. I didn't care what she did for me or what she didn't do; I just loved her and needed nothing in return. When we took the focus from ourselves and put it on others, that's the secret of true love. She couldn't hurt me because it's wasn't about me anymore, but about her. When she says something terrible out of anger, I no longer capitalizes on what she said but why. And it made me love her even more and not want her to feel angry again. We went on to continue dating for four more years. Each day seems like the first until we graduated and got separated by distance. She's married to another amazing guy now, and I am happy for her. And the reason for the split is because I became a missionary who serve children and young adults in Ukraine whose parents were killed in the war. My love for people has increased, and this has brought tremendous peace to me.
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Anonymous
2020-07-01 13:12:54
2020-07-01 13:12:54

The secret to true love is food. Liking the same foods, romantic dates, valentines chocolates. Literally, food. My elder sister and her boyfriend first met in a food competition in our town. They now have a child. People eat bubblegum to make themselves look cool in front of their crushes. People eat mint to make their breath smell good in front of their crushes. And how did Lady and the tramp nearly kiss?

You guessed it.

FOOD.

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Anonymous
2020-07-01 01:57:58
2020-07-01 01:57:58

the secret to true love is trust and happiness

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Anonymous
2020-06-30 14:51:52
2020-06-30 14:51:52

Don't look for someone who 'likes' the same things as you....couples that stay together commonly have the same 'dislikes' for the most things 'in common'.

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Anonymous
2020-06-30 09:09:09
2020-06-30 09:09:09

The secret is, there is no true love.

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Anonymous
2020-05-09 13:17:37
2020-05-09 13:17:37

True LOVE comes only to those that Do Believe in GOD!

Atheists cannot feel anymore than each of their own LUST for only each of their own wants!

Look in jails, they are filled with Atheists and devil followers.

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Anonymous
2020-05-09 13:12:17
2020-05-09 13:12:17

To Beleive in the One and only real GOD! LOVE comes only from and with GOD!

Atheists cannot feel anymore than each of their own LUST, for only each of their own wants. 

Look in jails, it is the self centered Atheists and devil followers that fill them up.

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