The secret to true love as opposed to sexual love is to under stand that it is unconditional, if you love some one or something you must love it warts and all, otherwise it's conditional love. A dog can spend its life being mistreated and still welcome its master. That is true love.
Before we can discuss the secret to true love, you must understand that true love is a gift that has to be valued and nourished. It's not something that you find one day like a beautiful seashell on a beach and put it up somewhere to be admired. True love is a part of life that has a life of its own. Value and nourish it, and it will grow and become deeper and more valuable. Find it, give it no value and forget to nourish it, and it will die. Simple as that.
The first secret to true love is knowing when you have found the love of your life, your other half, the one who is more important to you than even yourself, the one your entire being tells you is the one for you. That may happen one day when you look across a room and meet the eyes of her or him, your eyes lock and your heart jumps, and the eyes you are looking into tell you that the same is happening on the other side of that gaze. It could also happen when you are out with someone that you have dated casually for months, but never really felt much of anything for. Suddenly, one night, your heart could leap as your eyes meet or your lips touch. Knowing you have found true love might be just a quiet knowing that the person is the one for you. It happens differently for different people.
After meeting your true love, the secret to keeping the love alive is to unselfishly put the other person before yourself and communicate with that person in a positive and open manner. Many great relationships have lost their pizazz due to mistakes of one or both becoming selfish and not communicating with the other. Even those who have found their true loves have lost them because of the hurt and disappointment caused when the love of your life's actions and words say "you don't matter," "I'm for me first," and similar things.
When two people find true love and each puts the others hopes, dreams, desires, and feelings above their own and communicates in such a way as to build the other up and share their innermost thoughts, beautiful things happen! The true love that was found grows into something more beautiful than a rose, deeper than the deepest ocean, and stronger than anything imaginable. Anything less than being unselfish, putting the other before yourself, and great communication and it's tough for even true love to survive.A:2
You must know how to distinguish between love and infatuation. The KEY to true Love and Romance are not like recipes that you can use for that perfect relationship. That Key is unique to every couple and relates to their social cultures and values. Almost every human relationship has its ups and downs. When people can focus on the important and valuable stuff that makes it all worthwhile, rather than curse the stuff that causes pain then they are on the way to finding true Love .
You must not get caught up with the superficial physical characteristics that you would like in your mate. You should preferably focus your attention on emotional qualities like compassion, respect, cooperation and dependability that you would want your mate to demonstrate.
Finding true love starts with your ability to find it first within yourself. You must be happy and contented with who you are. When you are able to create positive energy around you it will work like a sweet flower attracting the honeybees. You will be able to connect with the right person.
Being authentic from day one! NO MATTER WHAT! To find real love you must first emphasize your true self! If you want someone to love you through your moments of imperfection, you must first be willing to do that for some one else. Be all the way real with yourself, so that you're ready for some one else's authenticity.
I'm not a love doctor by all means but one thing i do know is when you keep it lit for the jumps. When you are A1 from day one and keep it that way always til death do you part? that's solid
I say... There are 2 things in this world that if they're 100% genuine they are completely effortless and that is love and friendship.
If either of these is meant for you there isn't a thing you would do to change them. That is how I always knew I had true love or true
Friendship and it has yet to lead me wrong.
This question is so essential, and tha's why I will try as much as possible to speak from my heart. The words that come from the brain go to the mind, and it's subject to forgetfulness. Also, the words from the heart go to the heart and stay there. I want to start with my story: I started studying to become a doctor at the age of 19, and before that, I never had any interest in having a relationship with a girl. I never believed in love. For me, it was just all hormones in our body, making us lust after someone, and after some time, we start looking for the next person. Well, I believed that until my 2nd year at the university when I met a girl (Of course it all starts with a girl). Although I know I had feelings for this girl, I tried so hard for us to be friends. I knew she wanted me to ask her out, but I never wanted that.
Until a friend of mine asked her out, and I became jealous. Each time she wasn't in her room in the hostel, I always knew where she was, and of course, the picture of what they might be doing ran through my head all night. I thought that after some time, it would fade away, but no, it became worse. I started to miss her because I was now seeing less and less of her. Then one day, I realized this guy was mistreating her. I didn't know why, but I became angry. One day, I decided to call her and ask her what was going on because she didn't seem happy. She told me the guy actually was mean to her and even pushed her. Okay, this was when I realized my feelings for this girl had grown. I began to tell her how I felt about her. I didn't want her to go back to that guy. For the first time, I thought I was in love. Well, I was wrong (I'll explain later on, keep reading). To my surprise, she told me she felt the same for me too. But she became angry why I didn't ask her to be my girlfriend. Well, to cut the long drama short, she broke up with that guy that same day, and I also kissed her for the first time on the same day. We started dating. Of course, we had physical relationships (If you know what I mean). But this is the point: After two years into our relationship, I noticed she wasn't that attractive anymore. I have gotten used to her, and if I will be honest, I was now attracted to some other girl.
One night I asked myself, why am I doing this? Wasn't this the same girl I was in love with two years ago? What changed? I didn't want to break her heart (at least I still cared that much), and sometimes I sought a better way to tell her I'm no longer interested without her being hurt, but nothing. So, guess what? I went to church one day (I've been a Christian but clear was a hypocrite) because I wanted to know what I can do not to break her heart. After some time dedicated to studying The Bible, specifically, the life of Jesus Christ, I finally got it. I never loved her. I loved myself. I was with her because of how she made me feel. Every time I said "I love you" to her, what I meant was "I need you" to make me feel good. I realized we humans are self-centered, self-seeking, and self - preserving. We only think of ourselves. Jesus said, "there is no greater love than this than for a man to give his life for his friends. And Jesus gave His life because of love. I finally understood what true love is. It's all about giving. The only way I could love this girl was If I genuinely receive God's love and stop demanding love from her. It's the reason we put so much pressure on girls to do something to impress us. I realized if only I think about how she feels and how I can make her life better, everything will be fine. The next day when I saw her, it was so crazy. For the first time, I looked at her and thought, "what about what she wants?" She deserved to be loved and made to know she's worth everything. I realized how selfish I had been to her, and I didn't care anymore about me, but I cared about her for the first time. I told her, "I love you" for the first time, and I meant it. I didn't care what she did for me or what she didn't do; I just loved her and needed nothing in return. When we took the focus from ourselves and put it on others, that's the secret of true love. She couldn't hurt me because it's wasn't about me anymore, but about her. When she says something terrible out of anger, I no longer capitalizes on what she said but why. And it made me love her even more and not want her to feel angry again. We went on to continue dating for four more years. Each day seems like the first until we graduated and got separated by distance. She's married to another amazing guy now, and I am happy for her. And the reason for the split is because I became a missionary who serve children and young adults in Ukraine whose parents were killed in the war. My love for people has increased, and this has brought tremendous peace to me.
GOD is love, seek the kingdom of God and all will fall into place.
That's also unconditional comes in too, say good morning to one another,
It helps to acknowledge each other share breakfast together, to communicate,
Remember! always positive words it helps one another to get through the day. So when both walk out of the house and say "have a great day!" Your love one will know that you really mean that, and as you get in the car with a smile you'll find yourself saying "WOW! I am so in love with that person.
Let’s talk about first love, I know that most adults in their 30s to 50s and 60s would hardly remember their first love, but somewhere behind their minds, they won’t need to search too deep to get who he or she was, though their present spouse either married or just a live-in girl/boyfriend now might not be their first-ever love, yet you profess love to the present one.
Has this ever happened to you that you suddenly came across your first love and your heart skipped? And then it starts to palpitate gradually and you wonder why it is happening to you hence you love your present spouse more than anything?
I have often wondered, When you catch a glimpse of your first love and your heart starts racing, that's because of an adrenaline rush,
Here's how it works: The brain sends signals to the adrenal gland, which secretes hormones, such as adrenaline, epinephrine and norepinephrine, (Hmm, though am not an expert but these things happen within us frequently.) They flow through the blood and cause the heart to beat faster and stronger,
I married a woman that had I knew for less than a month. If a person can be your best friend, someone that makes you smile when you see her, and makes you smile when you just hear her voice or just think about her, she is the one. We had both lost a spouse, she had kids at home, mine were gone. Thirty-two years later, I still smile a lot. We are in our 70's so maybe it will last. After 3 days i knew she was the only woman I wanted. During the second week she proposed. We have had two arguments. The only time I have raised my voice was when i was singing in church.
the secret is to date a youngboy fan, all youngboy fans start out with having 8 children with 7 baby mothers but at one point in life they start to realize they only need one girl. in the point in life you have really adapted to loyalty and not having intercourse with any big booty female you see. soon enough you guys will be married for 30 years + according to Kentrell DeSaun Gaulden
I think the secret to true love is to ensure that you and your partner are the only opinions considered within your relationship. When you allow family and friends to have input un your love life, it could cause problems between the two. You should also strive to be friends with your partner as well as lovers. You want to be able to enjoy being around the person you hope to spend the majority of your time with. You can find more information and the secrets of love and relationships in my bio.
When it comes to how to attract men, it’s common for women to think that they have to look or act a certain way to be seen as beautiful or attractive.
What if I told you that the number one most attractive characteristic to men has little to do with looks? Well, it’s true!
Hey ladies, I’m Carlos Cavallo a relationship @dating_coach from Vancouver, Canada.
Today, I want to share with you what I consider to be one of the best-kept secrets when it comes to how to attract men.
After talking to many different men, I’ve come to learn that physically, there is no such thing as one “ideal woman.”
What one man finds attractive, another does not, and vice versa. This means that there’s absolutely no need for you to turn yourself inside-out to be attractive or desired by men.
Sure, some men find certain traits attractive, but as cheesy as it sounds, what’s on the outside doesn’t count as much as what is on the inside.
Being drop-dead-gorgeous has nothing to do with your eye color or your dress size. It’s all about having the right attitude and being sure of yourself, which means that the number one most attractive characteristic to men is certainty. This translates to courage, confidence, fearlessness, tenacity, the
list goes on and on.
At the root of how to be attractive to men is positive belief in yourself.
Being certain of your wants, dreams and beliefs, having the courage and poise to stand up for them, and being bold enough to stick by them, will make you ooze sex appeal.
Since men want to be with women who are confident, showing him this side of you will make him crazy with desire for you.
( I have place a link in my bio (Profile) that answer all dating tips, tricks and relationship advice)
The secret to "true love" is first, to be friends with the person. The second secret is being patient. The third secret is "true love" requires work from both persons. when something happens, you will know you are with your true love or not....
the secret is he\she does not love u!!!!!
The secret of true love is really simple............................you have to consider your lover as the only gift for your partner and care about him...........
It isn't a secret. It is called maturity. Many people, if not most, fall in love.
no secret. sorry. my secret to a happy relationship? Communication, and lots of it.
The True Love Is The Heart :-true love is when you know that you found the right person and you cant live without them. true love to me is talking on the phone and not wanting to get of because i know that i love hearing your voice. true love is that when you away from the one that you love you just wish and hope that they were there with you. that true love
The secret of true love is to be honest and open with your partner. You should also keep lines of communication open.
Romance Is just like true love but it has not have a secret but true love has because true love is like having someone in your heart forever but romance is when you find that person and then start to love him/her at their first second of love.
there is no secret let true love find you ASR2: The trick is to live your life and strive for success, and along the way you"ll find a woman doing the same thing.
Finding out who you are and what you want. Not what other people want.