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That's a wide open question and a lot of the answer depends on the history of your marriage. I can say, as a one-time non-believer, that counseling with and psychologist or LCSW can be immensly beneficial. Just the chance to say what you both feel in the presence of an objective mediator can be cathartic. Talk to your wife and try hard to hear her side and express your own. Good luck.

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Q: What should you do if you love your spouse but she wants to leave you?
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What do you do if you are married and in love with someone who is also in love with you?

You should probably try to get over it. Unless you wish to disrespect your spouse and leave her for another person, and injure your reputation, you should stay with your spouse.

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men should be the ones who leave because they should have that much love for they spouse that they want the woman to have the shelter

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What to do when you love her and she wants to leave you and she is leaving you after two days?

you should just forget about her if she really loved you she wouldn't be leaving and if not go after her tell her how you feel and embrace your love for her love her love her love her.

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Either learn to love them or leave them if your sure that's not possible.

I am married he is married We didn't mean to do it but we fell in love should we hurt others to be happy for ourselves?

Well if you are not in love with your spouse and you are "cheating" on your spouse it will no doubtedly come out and they will get hurt, whether you tell them now or later, does it really matter. If you are "in love" with someone other than your spouse that will mean that you are not even giving your spouse a chance in being happy anyway, because you are unhappy, and if you stay with your spouse eventually you will resent them for your unhappiness, and who wants to live that way? I say be honest not only to your spouse but to yourself, if you stay in your marriage...nobody will be happy.

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She does not love you.So be sporty and increase your relationship with her friend. u should go ahead in your life and leave that worst girl who does not love you.

What if your spouse love you more than you love him?

If he loves you more than you love him than you need to learn how to love him just as much as he loves you. You should love each other equally and live happily, if not then just split up. You should be happy that you have a spouse that loves you very much :)

How much time and love is considered reasonable to give your parents and siblings with your spouse as a priority?

You should try to give everyone some of your love but most of it should go to your spouse. Together with your spouse you are one flesh. But don't reject your other family members; keep everyone knowing that you love them. Hope it helps!

Should you ask if you can attend funeral?

no you shouldn't you should just go. If you love that person then just go. If someone wants you to leave tell them" im not here for you im here for ( name).

Does a man love you when he puts you down calls your kids names says your bugging him leave me alone wont help out But says i love you and cries when i leave him?

No he does not love you you should leave him all together. If he loved you he would not continue to put you down and he would love your children because they are a part of you. If you are having sex with this man this is why he continues to say I Love You. he just wants it from you. Answer: No he does not, he is manipulating your emotions to keep you under his control.

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talk to him about it and hope he isn't a nutter

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He wants you to leave him alone sometime and let him be with his friends more.

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that's for you to find out, she wants to know how you love her, not some guy on the internet would love

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Leave her alone.

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