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What should you do if your partner wants you to cut off ties with someone he abused before you and says that if you don't he doesn't want to have anything to do with you?
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∙ 18y ago
You deserve better than that. Leave him. He just doesn't want you to find out too much about his previous relation ship with her. He is obviously hiding something that he is worried that she will tell you. Remember that you can always talk to her without him knowing. Don't feel guilty for doing that, because the way that he's treating you isn't right, and he is the one who should be feeling guilty, not you. Tell his ex everything that he has told you. It might be hard to believe, but she probably knows him a lot better than you do. If she has been abused by him and has moved on in her life now, then she knows the real him, and understands his true motives, which may be very different to what he wants you to believe. He sounds like a nut. He doesnt want you and her to compare notes because you may both come to the very real conclusion that the reason for his behaviour/abuse is not your fault, its him. This would be too painfull for him to even admit to himself. Men like this love to play one ex against the current girlfriend/wife. It gives his ego a boost and he doesnt have to face that hes the loser.
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