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What should you do when you find out you 2 of your best friends have been talking about you behind your back?
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∙ 16y ago
This can be a difficult situation but the best way is to confront them. When you confront them, it's important not to get angry. Although you may be hurt, anger isn't going to solve anything, just lead to more conflict. Calmly approach them during a time when you can both talk alone. Tell then that you have heard that they have been talking about you behind your back. If they apologize, try to forgive them. This may be a hard thing to do and it may take a long time, but holding a grudge will only build up more anger inside of you. If they try to lie, or don't take you seriously, you might want to consider finding new friends. Especially if this isn't the first time. Friends who constantly talk about you behind your back or lie to you are not true friends. Good luck!
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∙ 12y ago
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∙ 16y agoconfront them are you a male or female. women who have a group of 3 usually tend to "be friends" with one one week and the other the next. They shouldn't be vicious. Ask them to cut it out and don't be quite as trusting and great until they earn your trust back
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∙ 15y agoI went through the same problem.I was new to the school so no one knew me.they called me gay.but later we became friends.but this Friday I was watching my friends play soccer.then I heard one of my friends talking to his friend telling him I was a gay fage.so this monday I'm gonna lay down the law and tell him hes being a jerk.stand up for your self
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∙ 11y agoI would either:
1# make up awesome comebacks
2# make them feel like little kids, roll your eyes at them, make them feel childish for being so immature, they will be embarrassed and stop.
3# say "you think that you're so secretive, that I don't know what you've been saying about me. Wow I didn't know that you could be so childish while thinking that you are so cool."
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∙ 12y agoIf your best friend talks about you behind your back a lot, perhaps he/she is not really your best friend. Maybe you could politely ask them whether they have been talking about you. But don't involve any others (e.g. don't say 'jenny told me that you said...'). If they don' answer at all, then they are being quite immature. Talking about people behind their backs is a horrible thing to do, so maybe you should leave her/him alone. Anyone who talks behind your back does not deserve to be your friend :)
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∙ 12y agoConfront them.
It might be a little scary, since you're their friend and may be hurt that they're doing such a thing - perhaps even worried that they'll admit it instead of denying it, despite you knowing the truth - but it puts it out in the open and you'll be able to find out why they're talking behind your back.
If they are doing such a thing, maybe they aren't such good friends, anyways. Friendship does have it's ups and downs, and maybe this is just one of those 'downs' times. Maybe it'll get better if you give it some time; but maybe it won't. If they're talking behind your back, it's not a sign of true friendship.
Maybe start hanging out with new people and develop new friendships, because negative ones that hurt your feelings aren't good for you or anyone else.
But yes, I suggest that you talk to them about it. It could all be a misunderstanding, or maybe they have something they need to say to your face, instead of behind your back. Maybe, if they say it, it'll clear the air and things will return to normal. You never know unless you try (:
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∙ 14y agoI think that you should talk to them and ask them why. but don't say it meanly say it seriously. and if they don't stop you should tell them we can't be friends
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My Friend Was talking Behind my back why?
I can't tell you why your friend was talking behind your back but I can tell you that real friends don't talk behind their friend's back. You should let your friend know how you feel about this and that it is an act of betrayal.
How do you stop your friends from talking behind your back?
Choose friends that don't do that. Also, don't do things that are worth talking about behind your back. Ultimately, you can not control other people's actions, only your own.
What should you do if you overheard your friends complaining about you behind your back?
You should tell them you thought you trusted them, and if they are really your friends they shouldn't talk about you behind your back.
Should you confront someone who is talking about you?
Yes. If you confront them, hopefully they will stop talking about you behind your back.
What should you do if you have a friend talking behind your back?
Confront her if you are certain they are and ask them why.
How do you know your friends don't talk behind your back?
Honestly you don't, but you trust that they don't because they're your friends. That's how it works. If you suspect your friends of talking about you behind your back then you either don't have the best friends or are just a little too worried about things like this. If you're really that worried perhaps you should talk to them about it, but if it is just you worrying then they may not appreciate your concerns.
What should you do if your friend says something to you but another thing to other people?
Talk to them and tell them how you feel. They aren't good friends if they make up lies behind you back so maybe you should stop talking to them.
What should you do when you feel like everyone is talking behind your back including friends family?
Confort them about how you feel and then take some time away. give yourself some space to access the situation. people no matter who they are will always say things about someone they love, behind their back because they dont want to hurt their feelings and this is something you wont be able to stop no matter how ard you try. you will have to deal with the situation, just know that these are your friends and family and after you confort them about talking behind your back they may tell you things you may not want hear about yourself that they are worried about. Ask your friends and family if they are talking behind your back so you can find out if they are so you don't have to worry about it anymore. When several or a lot of people think badly about a person it's because there's one person saying things about them so you should find out if that's what happened and if that's what happened and the people who were talking behind your back realize that that they'll stop or else maybe someone else who said it originally. Tell them to stop talking behind your back ofcourse!
If your friend was talking about you behind your back what would you do?
First of all you need to hear him or her yourself to make sure. Then if your friend was talking about you behind your back you should go up to him or her the next day and ask him or her if he or she was and then if they say no say well i guess we aren't friends anymore. When they ask why say because you just lied to me and i know because i heard you talking about me. Then walk off and go about your business.
How do you handle people that talk about your friends behind their backs to you?
When a person talks behind your friends back , just tell them , drop it . Don't talk bad about your friend while he|she is talking about that person it shows signs of disrespect & fake .
What is the definition of talking behind someone behind there back?
gossiping
What are your friends talking about behind your back?
Unless you have been known to do interesting and unusual actions or are not liked by your friends, probably not you. If they are talking about you, they would probably discuss any funny moments you have been involved in; making fun of you is not usually what they would do.
